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sexually provocative photo

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Sunday123456 · 10/12/2021 11:48

Oh dear, the green eyed monster has come out in me.
my wife, before we met had a brief relationship and sent a nude photo - not a full frontal.
Now the relationship ended & we got together, however my wife in her infinite wisdom then decided that it was a nice photo and decided to send it to me as a private Christmas card - which i have treasured.
However she has told me about the picture as she is freighted that it may appear, because said ex has been texting her out of the blue. She hasn't replied & i'm happy to let him suffer in silence. Although i do secretly want to break his nose for the lack of respect to our marriage - i wont.
I haven't made a song and dance about it to my wife but feel sick and don't want to keep hold of the photo as it was never meant for me.
Do i throw it away, or man up and get on with it as it was in the past and an innocent mistake.
I love my wife.

OP posts:
supercali77 · 10/12/2021 17:30

I find it crass. Recycling old nudes.

IamGusFring · 10/12/2021 19:00

Oh God - a photo that was taken for someone else and then it's just reused ... that is just 😱 . Talk about sloppy seconds . Some women have no pride or respect it seems .

Doona · 10/12/2021 20:21

@Sunday123456

LOL
? Oh, not another fake thread?
Thki · 08/01/2022 06:19

Don't get all this naked things with women. Women uploading photos of themselves nude asking for 'tributes" ...why. seems stranger than guys doing cam .

DivorcedAndDelighted · 08/01/2022 23:10

@Fairylights25

I don't know any real women that ever do this over the age of 20.
Erm.... I'm in my 40s and I do. Tasteful, mind, and nothing I'd be upset about if it turned up elsewhere, but then, I am relaxed about the human body. It's fun and helps keeps the spark bright.
Feelinglow27 · 09/01/2022 11:11

Yeah someone said "most women do this"... I'd like to see the stats for this 🤣

Hopingforabagofbuttons · 09/01/2022 12:37

Ariann

It's crass that your wife gave you a sexy picture that she actually took for an ex. Sending nude pictures is stupid and infantile anyway. Who does that unless they are 17?

Yup , exactly this

Eleganz · 09/01/2022 12:44

I wouldn't be treasuring a reused nude that was originally taken for an ex, that's for sure.

At least she has blocked him now and you can move on.

OP, hopefully you've got what you want from this thread, but if you do feel like being blamed for everything wrong in your relationship by random women on the internet, do feel free to post again! Grin

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