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82 replies

OnlyFans · 29/11/2021 11:54

Would you consult your husband first before you made an Only Fans account?
The photos won’t be nude and will mostly be underwear photos etc.
If they disagreed to you doing so, would you still go ahead?

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NeedsCharging · 29/11/2021 11:58

Yes of course I would talk to him about it.
If they disagreed I would have to decide which was more important my marriage or my only fans account.
What are your reasons for wanting to do it?

RubyTuesday70 · 29/11/2021 12:01

Seriously Shock

Yes I'd ask, and respect his decision.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 29/11/2021 12:03

@NeedsCharging

Yes of course I would talk to him about it. If they disagreed I would have to decide which was more important my marriage or my only fans account. What are your reasons for wanting to do it?
Exactly this.
Monalotmoore · 29/11/2021 12:04

Would you expect him to consult you if he did it?

NovemberNovemberDarkNights · 29/11/2021 12:06

Why do you want to start one? (If you do & this isn't about someone else). I actually think its 'not on' when you're married.

OnlyFans · 29/11/2021 12:07

@needschanging - It’s purely because I just want to try it. It’s more curiosity than anything.

I think it would help if everything was transparent, eg he had access to my account and we had boundaries in place (no private photos/videos/messages.)

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LynnInAVan · 29/11/2021 12:08

As a HR Manager, I would strongly advise you to comb the terms and conditions of what you are signing up to.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 29/11/2021 12:09

It's really weird tbh that you're considering not telling your partner you're doing this. It would be automatic in a healthy relationship, IMO, to mention this instead of doing it secretly.

OnlyFans · 29/11/2021 12:10

Thanks @LynnInAVan. I will look into it carefully first before I make any decisions. Will discuss with my husband first.

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OrlandointheWilderness · 29/11/2021 12:16

Of course you should tell your partner! I'd be pretty unhappy if mine did this and would consider it grounds to end the relationship tbh.

Youngatheart00 · 29/11/2021 12:20

Please think twice before you sell your body to dirty pervs

weinerdog · 29/11/2021 12:39

@Youngatheart00

Please think twice before you sell your body to dirty pervs

Putting pictures and videos up onlineisn't selling ones body, at least not to me.

Lilolily · 29/11/2021 12:41

Which gutter press rag do you work for?

Booboo24 · 29/11/2021 12:44

If you have any respect at all for your husband and your marriage then of course you should discuss it with him, and respect his wishes if he doesnt like the idea. Would you be happy for him to have one without your knowledge? I'm a bit gob smacked you had to ask to be honest!

pollyroo · 29/11/2021 12:51

Well I suppose you could join the likes of Kerry katatona & the Hollyoaks girl who are apparently raking in thousands BiscuitGrinConfused

NeedsCharging · 29/11/2021 12:51

What is it you are curious about OP?

I thought is was mostly men paying to view women in relation to sex/kink/fetish?

OnlyFans · 29/11/2021 13:07

@NeedsCharging It very much depends on the content you wish to share, some share just photos, some share nude photos and interact with men on a personal level which is not something I will do.

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NeedsCharging · 29/11/2021 13:17

Ok but what is it you are curious about? Why do you want to try it?

Anoisagusaris · 29/11/2021 13:44

Do you want to do it for money? Or what’s the reason? If not for money, then is it just to boost your ego? Seems a bit pathetic.

User2638483 · 29/11/2021 13:52

[quote OnlyFans]@needschanging - It’s purely because I just want to try it. It’s more curiosity than anything.

I think it would help if everything was transparent, eg he had access to my account and we had boundaries in place (no private photos/videos/messages.)[/quote]
My knowledge of only fans is limited… but with no interaction with subscribers you’re not going to get very far are you?

Greenmarmalade · 29/11/2021 13:55

It would be a massive breach of trust and boundaries in my marriage.

Why do you want to do it?

OnlyFans · 29/11/2021 13:59

@NeedsCharging Mostly to see if I would be successful in doing so, also a confidence boost and the money would be a bonus.

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furbabymama87 · 29/11/2021 13:59

I have done professional glamour modelling in the past and I've done Only Fans for about 6 months. If you're less than stunning you'll need to show everything to be making any kind of money from it as there's so many doing it these days.

OnlyFans · 29/11/2021 14:01

@User2638483 You don’t have to interact with them, they pay a subscription to access your photos (page content.)

Maybe I won’t get far at all, I’m not banking on doing really well!

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OnlyFans · 29/11/2021 14:03

@furbabymama87 I can’t say whether I’m stunning or less than stunning because we all have different ideals of what’s stunning and what’s not. If I try it and it doesn’t work out, that’s fine.

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