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Would you consult your husband first before you made an Only Fans account?
The photos won’t be nude and will mostly be underwear photos etc.
If they disagreed to you doing so, would you still go ahead?

I can’t help wondering what it will do to the OP’s confidence if nobody shows any interest at all.

@ComtesseDeSpair Then if they don’t, it doesn’t matter.

The girls that make money already or push for a big fan base off only fans such as strippers, ex models etc. Unless you was doing it because your a Dom and looking to have a small private group of well paying followers really you need wider publicity. How you going to do that without anyone finding out? It might not be you husband but one of his friend or family and that will most likely blow up in your face.

@NeedsCharging I’m not interested in going too far, if I join and realise it’s not for me, or I’m not the right person for it, I will just delete the account.

NeedsChargingI’m not interested in going too far, if I join and realise it’s not for me, or I’m not the right person for it, I will just delete the account

It'd just that you said you wanted to do it partly for a confidence boost and unless you are offering a "full service" or something very niche I doubt you will get it do then that begs the question how will your confidence be if nobody is interested?

@NeedsCharging Then they aren’t interested. If I felt that it would have a negative impact on my confidence, if they simply wasn’t interest, then I wouldn’t do it. I am not relying on it to pay my bills, it is mostly curiosity and whether it would work for me.

Are you happy for your husband to interact with onlyfans girls?

[quote OnlyFans]@ftw163532 I didn’t say my confidence is in the gutter, just that it would be a confidence boost.

If I do decide to try it and it doesn’t work, then that’s fine.[/quote]
Sleazy men who pay to see you and have a wank is a confidence boost ?

Do you have to show your face?

… I can get paid to eat eclairs?!

If he used those type of accounts and claimed there was ‘nothing wrong with it Joni wouldn’t minkean it’s cheating or it’s not
All this bs men give about it’s just harmless fun but they soo change their mind if their partner does it . Just a form of Madonna whore syndrome
On the other hand no way I’d want to do it myself , why do you want your body to be viewed as a commodity, surely there are far more interesting things about you than how you look in underwear

Mirror I would think as long as you eat them while sat on a saddle whipping yourself and shouting yeehaw then there is someone that will pay to see it I am sure 😁

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Would you consult your husband first before you made an Only Fans account? The photos won’t be nude and will mostly be underwear photos etc. If they disagreed to you doing so, would you still go ahead?

Imagine if one of your husbands friends sees? Or your employer? One of the girls from hollyoaks got fired for her account as she refused to take It down. I definitely wouldn't do it- if it's on the internet, it's forever. You don't know where these photos will end up.

You are insane.

Just a thought from an old lady here...

Have you thought about extras work? I'm guessing you're attractive, have spare time, are not shy, would like a bit if excitement and extra money.

Several friends do it, have great fun, and then it is fun for us when we see them for 3 seconds in a scene (which was a days work for them!). They met a few celebs and a lot of friends.

I know its not the same, but I just wondered if this might meet some of your goals with less risk.

You really should speak to your partner first. Can you imagine him finding out from his mates?!

Yes definitely speak to him first and I would be gobsmacked if he was ok with that.

Are you happy for people you know, colleagues, your kids friends and their parents, teachers etc knowing or seeing you?

@Momijin Yes I will speak to my husband first. There is no requirement to show your face and can be completely anonymous.

I think you would get an incredibly depressing glimpse into the sordid, grubby psyches of the men who visit those kind of sites. I follow a model on Instagram who does lingerie shoots as well as clothes and she sometimes shares the foul, depraved DMs she gets sent by men - their revolting pictures and gross fantasies. She's not offering any kind of sexual service, she's just a fashion influencer. I can't even bear to imagine how vile it is on a site like OnlyFans. I think it would genuinely be quite traumatic. I don't understand the curiosity or how it could have any kind of appeal beyond holding your nose and taking the money - which you'd only get if very successful (like with any social media, this is only a tiny handful of the many who try it) or very willing to do all sorts of interactive stuff.

Your very naive about this, how do you intend on getting subscribers?
Do you have any idea of how much work it takes to get noticed and get people to pay for content, how much time you will need to put into creating content and keep people subscribed
It's hard work. Very hard work.

And yes you need to tell your husband about it.

And no personal interaction = no money

That's what they are paying for, plenty of free content available online .

You give no reason except that you are ‘curious ‘

But what are you actually curious about OP ?. Whether we live In a world where women are routinely valued primarily for youth and looks whether they will get naked rather than treated as people . Hint , we do .
Why on earth would you want to contribute to ?

Would you be OK with your boyfriend doing his business to a girl just wanting to take pics ?

I have a couple of friends who have had some varying success on OF.

Faceless, underwear shots won't get you anywhere. Also no interaction, will male people entirely uninterested.

The people who make the most amount of money in OF also have other social media connected. People what to know more about them and have more
Interaction. Their SM accounts are designed to drive people to their OF.

The downside is that they have to be out about it in RL. Some have had their content sent to family. And it's impacted any career they wanted away from it.

You can Google Ann Summers and get more content than you are offering. And it's free.

Yours would have less impact in RL.

The fact that you would even consider doing this without speaking to your dh and then consider doing it even if they aren't happy with it, when you don't even rely have a concept of what the 'fans' want, is a bit odd.

Its not something people do unless it's for money or a self esteem thing. You claim it's neither.

If something is designed ro boost your confidence and it doesn't, then it will have a negative impact.

If I were you, I would be looking at why you feel this is the way to boost your confidence.

I wouldn't say insane. I'd say naive to the point of stupidity. Op have you even thought of the repercussions of doing OnlyFans? On your current/future employment, on your relationships with other people, how you might be treated in your local community, the effects it might have on your children if any, have you actually given any real thought to how your husband would feel about it?