Would you date a man who

[curiouscat1]

Would you date a man whose wife had divorced him because of adultery with prostitutes?

No. Why do you ask?

It's a no from me.

No

Not if he was the last man alive.

It's a no from me.

Nope.

Of course not!

Ew no

No

No. But how would you know unless he publicised the reason.

Obviously not. Gross

@MollysDolly

No. But how would you know unless he publicised the reason.

Good point. But unless it was a ONS I think the question about why you got divorced will come up. If you're looking for a relationship it would be foolish to lie as the truth will out.

Not in a million years.

Nope.
I wouldn’t date a man who had any history with prostitutes, regardless of whether he was single or cheating on his wife.

urm nope

No and for 2 reasons (off the top of my head anyways).

1. He made a commitment to his wife. He supposedly loved her. He cheated. He purposefully went out of his way to hurt someone he was supposed to love. That is proof that they are untrustworthy and callous.

2. He paid a prostitute to cheat. Now I could almost forgive someone who found themselves falling for someone else while in a marriage. Almost. I can see how it can happen and how when feelings grow it can be hard to pull yourself away from the situation. Like I say. Almost. However the fact he wanted to cheat so went and found someone he could pay to sleep with. He wasn't caught up in an emotional entanglement. He wasn't swept away with passion. He literally thought "Oh, I want to have sex with someone who isn't my wife. I know, I'll buy someone to do that with". It was a calculated decision. An active choice.

Unless you have direct access to the ex wife, who then desperately wants to let everyone know her husband was seeing prostitutes behind her back, I doubt it will come to light.

My first husband, marriage failed essentially because we were too young and wouldn't be told. However, no one has ever checked this when I've told them. It could have been for all sorts of reasons, no one has ever questioned, why would they?

Nopee

No. But in reality a lot might. Because what would happen is, he would be dating the new woman and someone (the ex wife?) would tell her. She would then ask him about it, and he would deny it and say his ex wife was crazy. And if the new woman liked him she would probably believe him not the person revealing his past (ex wife). In time, she may discover she was wrong.

I believe prostitution lacks proper consent. Which means he enjoys sex with someone he knows isn't enjoying it and wouldn't be doing it if she wasn't paid. As far as I'm concerned that makes him a rapist.

Many sex workers are trafficked, addicted and suffer(ed) abuse. I know because I've known many many sex workers. Men don't ask. Ever. They are happy with the risk that they are contributing to the systematic rape of a trafficked woman.

Personally I wouldn't knowingly speak to a punter never mind date one.

Of course not!

Good point. But unless it was a ONS I think the question about why you got divorced will come up. If you're looking for a relationship it would be foolish to lie as the truth will out.

But that means you're relying on a lying cheating scumbag who slept with prostitutes behind his wife's to live by the motto "it would be foolish to lie as the truth will out"

Nope....he's an abuser and a cheat.

Lol no