He locked me out of my own house

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I needed to say what happened to me .

He called while I was driving and swore and told me to get home because it was late at night (5pm afternoon) said 'dont fucking bother coming back to my fucking house, you or your son' (LO is his btw). I got home 5 mins after that call, got to the door and cant open door. Hes locked me and LO out the house. I'm calling him but his line keeps cutting me off, Keep ringing doorbell but nothing, me and LO were banging on front door and window. I then went down side alley and tried to get through gate but it was locked. Lo and I was shouting but he ignored us. Eventually came and was swearing at me and told me to stay outside if I love being outside so much. When we got inside he just argued, with me, burped in my face, slapped me in the face, kept squaring up to me, groped me numerous times which I loathe and made crude sexual remarks. I also noticed he switched the door bell off when I got inside.

The house is actually mine, even though i put his name on the mortgage, one big mistake.

You need to phone the police op.

Christ
I’d kick him out and get a divorce. He’s revolting and abusive to you both.

And yes, call the police

He slapped you and burped in your face?? What a disgusting pig!!!! Call the police OP. Get him out your house and don’t go back there. Are you ok? I feel for you and your poor DS. Who cares if god forbid your out at 5pm!!! Call citizens advice re house once he’s gone for good. Absolutely awful man

This is terrible

Call the police

Call the police. You cannot let your child witness that again. How old is your little one?

Call the police!

Call the police, you and your son are at risk. This will not get better. I'm so sorry

Sorry to say if you put his name on the house its no longer "yours" he has rights now

Call the police and have him removed

He’s an abuser, men like this get worse not better. Many women on mumsnet can attest to this. He’ll try to manipulate you later into it being your fault he did that and if you just didn’t do the things you do he wouldn’t have done that.

Get rid of him asap, he’s assaulted you and your LO should not see this or be around it.

this is terrible so abusive, why aren't you allowed out after 5pm? that's not even a toddlers bedtime

please phone the police and tell people close to you x

What caused it? Has He done it before? Please get you and your son out of this environment. Call the police: he assaulted you, get rid of him. Not sure on the legalities of house ownership with him on the mortgage, is he on the deeds?.

What’s the history here? I’m assuming this isn’t a one off and there is more here?

You need to phone the police right now. He’s abusing you and your son, you can’t allow this. Please call them now or go somewhere safe if you can.

Have you called the police?

Op you know that this is assault and domestic abuse don't you? Are you married? You need to protect yourself and your child. He has crossed a serious line now and if you found his behaviour confusing before I'm sure you can see this is unacceptable. Please call the police and leave this abusive pig of a man.

I’m normally one to cringe at the LTB comments but on this occasion you need to leave him. That goes beyond abuse. It sounds almost sadistic terrorism. His behaviour is beyond disgusting. For your sake and your DC you need to get away from him.

Phone your solicitor first thing Monday morning. Have someone change the locks immediately and call the police to remove him. Sexual assault, violence and coercive control. He is a dangerous man.

Is this the first time he has exhibited violence?
How old is your child?
He needs to leave your house and if he doesn’t call the police.

Yes. Big mistake and it's going to be an expensive mistake too.
But staying with him would be a bigger mistake.

@HeartsAndClubs

What’s the history here? I’m assuming this isn’t a one off and there is more here?

Of course. They dont get to this point on the first date. That’s why the ‘normally ltb comments make me cringe’ mob piss me off so much. If so many more abused woman were supported in leaving at the first sign, it wouldn't get to this awful point, the point the ‘normally the ltb comments make me cringe’ mob think it is ok to leave. The point it is often so much harder to actually do so.

If it's your house then kick him out.