He locked me out of my own house

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I needed to say what happened to me .

He called while I was driving and swore and told me to get home because it was late at night (5pm afternoon) said 'dont fucking bother coming back to my fucking house, you or your son' (LO is his btw). I got home 5 mins after that call, got to the door and cant open door. Hes locked me and LO out the house. I'm calling him but his line keeps cutting me off, Keep ringing doorbell but nothing, me and LO were banging on front door and window. I then went down side alley and tried to get through gate but it was locked. Lo and I was shouting but he ignored us. Eventually came and was swearing at me and told me to stay outside if I love being outside so much. When we got inside he just argued, with me, burped in my face, slapped me in the face, kept squaring up to me, groped me numerous times which I loathe and made crude sexual remarks. I also noticed he switched the door bell off when I got inside.

The house is actually mine, even though i put his name on the mortgage, one big mistake.

I get the feeling that the relationship is on, then off, then on again.

Why do you think you can't trust your family and friends? If it's because they've backed off, that doesn't mean they won't help you if/when needed. They are obviously at their wits end with you going back for more of the same thing.

You really need to think about your child here, because right now you're not protecting him. I can't fathom why you put his name on the deeds to your house, but I guess you were bullied/coerced into it.

I'm uncertain if there's anything that could be done about that legally citing undue influence but you would need to start reporting this abuse formally to stand a chance under that argument.

Police.

Then solicitor

It's concerning that Women's aid were worried enough to want to take something further. If that wasn't enough and you're also not really taking in what we're all saying, it's terribly sad. Please do something constructive and save yourself and your child.

Op please leave, if not for your sake, for your sons! I witnessed domestic abuse as a child and believe me, its not something any child should go through. Hope you're ok

He physically abused you and then sexually abused you. Call the police and have him removed from the house. They aren’t going to take a child off you unless you keep allowing physical abuse to happen. He’s trying to force you out of the house

Are you married to this prick? If not ring the police to have him removed from your house. Otherwise see a solicitor about a divorce ASAP. Don't put up with this abuse.

How are you OP?