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What/who is this? Found on DP's phone (photo)

95 replies

Purpledasher · 24/10/2021 10:31

Ok so I found this in DP's sent emails , asked him & he has 'no idea' & rushed off & deleted it. He is now angry with me!
Is it spam or what? I'm very suspicious & cross....

What/who is this? Found on DP's phone (photo)
OP posts:
Ohmych · 24/10/2021 10:33

Is that a message he has sent someone?

LadyLuLou · 24/10/2021 10:33

why are you checking his emails?

Crystalvas · 24/10/2021 10:34

His reaction sounds suspicious. Time to start doing some detective work.

VioletVesper · 24/10/2021 10:34

Who was it sent to? My first thought would be he wanted to save those pics but not in his phones photo album.

TwinklyBranch · 24/10/2021 10:35

It's not spam if he's sent it!

MrMrsJones · 24/10/2021 10:35

If its in his sent emails, he sent it

Rushing off to delete is suspicious as hell.

NautaOcts · 24/10/2021 10:36

That’s weird
He’s emailed screen shots to someone
Does the email address give any clues about who it is or their sex? Do you know them?
Do you recognise the woman in the photo?

Purpledasher · 24/10/2021 10:37

Yes he's sent it to someone...
LadyLuLou I came across it when looking at sent emails because we share another email account for business but I accidentally went into Yahoo instead of Gmail.

OP posts:
PenguinBarnotBird · 24/10/2021 10:37

Where’s he sending it to?

NautaOcts · 24/10/2021 10:38

Or yes could it be he’s emailed them to himself and has another email address

Purpledasher · 24/10/2021 10:39

NautaOcts
No I don't recognise her at all.
No clue in email address..I've emailed it to ask who they are but don't have much hope of a response.

OP posts:
Limeeye · 24/10/2021 10:40

The reaction is what would worry me.

Sonex · 24/10/2021 10:41

Clearly a porn thing. He's shred them with some one else or himself to wank over later. I suppose the fact that they're screenshots and not actual photos is positive - suggests he wasn't actually at the pool himself.

ImJustMum · 24/10/2021 10:43

I cant see the photos clear enough. Are they photos from online or ones that have been taken by DH?

Pandaly · 24/10/2021 10:45

I expect a Porn thing.

Seems silly to deny all knowledge when they are in his sent emails..

MilkyButts · 24/10/2021 10:49

I'd assume it's a woman from social media either that he knows maybe from work or just a random woman from Instagram for example, if it was a porn thing surely the woman would be naked at some point so he'd screenshot that instead?

Pandaly · 24/10/2021 10:50

True. Just something he's sent a mate for the wank bank.

NumberZ · 24/10/2021 10:56

Hardly pornographic are they? His reaction is more concerning than the images imo.

themadcatparade · 24/10/2021 10:58

He’s lying to you OP and hiding something. He’s taken screenshots of girl as per the description and he has sent it to someone.

Screenshots could have been off someone’s profile, is he on dating profiles? Or a porn thing, has he been on online porn sites and screenshotted something?

If you have a shared google account you can check the location and web activity via google account data and privacy settings of around the time and date of the email and it might give you a clue to where it came from

milcal · 24/10/2021 10:58

Sent it to himself? An email address that you don't know about?

I've seen this happen before.

hattiesmith · 24/10/2021 10:59

My suspicion would be he's taken the photos and sent them on to the person in the photo.
Can you check to see where he was on that date?

NumberZ · 24/10/2021 11:00

I hadn’t thought of someone using those on a dating site - that’s some confidence fair play!

RicherThanYew · 24/10/2021 11:02

Yes op I wouldn't worry. It's just a picture of a woman being shared as wank fodder like a piece of meat. No problem there.

Pandaly · 24/10/2021 11:03

@RicherThanYew

Yes op I wouldn't worry. It's just a picture of a woman being shared as wank fodder like a piece of meat. No problem there.
Well it would be a problem for me but it might not be for OP
OuchWhatWasThat · 24/10/2021 11:04

@RicherThanYew

Yes op I wouldn't worry. It's just a picture of a woman being shared as wank fodder like a piece of meat. No problem there.
That’s a low bar! 🤕