What/who is this? Found on DP's phone (photo)

[Purpledasher]

Ok so I found this in DP's sent emails , asked him & he has 'no idea' & rushed off & deleted it. He is now angry with me!
Is it spam or what? I'm very suspicious & cross....

The title of the image reminds me of Mac screenshot titles - I think they’d end with the date and time they were taken. Did you see that?

That looks like a hotel ad to me...... Could he have downloaded the images instead of a link? I've managed to do that before...... I am however a rare breed of thick as pigshittery.

They just seem too innocuous to be dodgy, his reaction however is weird.

@PlanDeRaccordement

If he really has no idea, why rush off to delete and then be angry with you?

I’d be angry if my DH were actively monitoring and questioning my sent emails. Especially one that is innocuous like this. Then if he had the temerity to be “cross” with me over sending this email, I’d tell him not to be a controlling asshat.

She wasn't monitoring it though. They share one of their emails and she went on the wrong one.

Also, innocuous? Most women would not be happy with their partners/husbands having bikini pics of another woman like this. There is nothing wrong with that at all.

@JesusIsAnyNameFree
She wasn't monitoring it though. They share one of their emails and she went on the wrong one.

Yes and I suppose she “accidentally” scrolled all the way back from 25 Oct to 19 June as well? Forgive me if I don’t quite believe the “ooops” this just popped up story.

Also, innocuous? Most women would not be happy with their partners/husbands having bikini pics of another woman like this. There is nothing wrong with that at all.

Other posters have called these pictures innocuous or agreed with the first poster who called them that. So, yes while some women would not be happy, obviously some women, including myself, are fine with it as well. And both viewpoints are perfectly reasonable imho. I just don’t see it as evidence of an affair or about to have an affair or even of using porn as others have speculated.

[quote PlanDeRaccordement]@JesusIsAnyNameFree
She wasn't monitoring it though. They share one of their emails and she went on the wrong one.

Yes and I suppose she “accidentally” scrolled all the way back from 25 Oct to 19 June as well? Forgive me if I don’t quite believe the “ooops” this just popped up story.

Also, innocuous? Most women would not be happy with their partners/husbands having bikini pics of another woman like this. There is nothing wrong with that at all.

Other posters have called these pictures innocuous or agreed with the first poster who called them that. So, yes while some women would not be happy, obviously some women, including myself, are fine with it as well. And both viewpoints are perfectly reasonable imho. I just don’t see it as evidence of an affair or about to have an affair or even of using porn as others have speculated.[/quote]
I guess I don't see why OP would lie to us about how she found it. What would be the point?

Why would a man save pictures of a woman in a bikini if not to wank over, or at the very least sit there drooling over it?
Not that I can for the life of me understand how those pictures are worthy of even drooling over but I honestly can't see any other reason for him to save them. It's just weird.

It really is because I am very secure in my relationship and have complete trust in my DH. We allow each other lots of freedom to admire photos or artwork of beautiful men and women

😂 what an elegant way to describe wanking over porn.

Tinypic ceased operating in 2019 so its not recent. Hope that helps x

Go in deleted emails or retrieve them from trash duhhh

@Purpledasher

Yes he's sent it to someone... LadyLuLou I came across it when looking at sent emails because we share another email account for business but I accidentally went into Yahoo instead of Gmail.

No you didn’t 🤣🤣.

@Naunet

It really is because I am very secure in my relationship and have complete trust in my DH. We allow each other lots of freedom to admire photos or artwork of beautiful men and women

😂 what an elegant way to describe wanking over porn.

I know.

I wonder if that extends to admiring people who her DH personally knows, butt naked.

Have you tried way back machine?

@BringOnTheOtherWorlders

How is that porn? Looks like screen grabs from a hotel commercial.

A hotel that uses glamour models with gigantic boobs for its commercials

@GraceAnatomy

Copy the email address, put it in the search bar on Facebook and see if there is a Facebook profile that is linked to that email address.

Good idea.

Ok OP so I did a bit of sleuthing for you and its a bit weird - tiny pic ceased operations in 2019 so the image would have been from before this (or at least the link generated would have been).

Didn't find anything on reverse google image - but we need higher quality pics for this.

Best bet is to google the email address it was sent to.

There's no way he doesn't know how these photos came to be sent to himself, which means he has something to hide, sorry OP.

The small pool makes me think it's an escort, also the way she isn't giving a full face identifying shot but is looking down to one side.

The TinyPic address is not a link, it's a third image file that hasn't attached properly I think, or what is the [IMG] in front of it?

Screenshots are often taken when content is going to disappear, like Snapchat for example or a sex cam. But when I forward a screenshot to my gmail it just comes up as IMG5857 or whatever. Is it different on his phone? If not, these aren't actually phone screenshots, they're computer images that were saved before sending.

Let's face it, it don't look good

Looks like an escort thing. They talk or message and she sends the pics. I don’t know why it’s in his sent folder unless he is sending it to himself like a dummy or off somewhere to be vetted.

Definitely not a hotel ad! My god, unless it’s a flop house. That idea had me in stitches! It’s not that. I almost wish I was wrong! Those pictures ARE NOT marketable for any reputable hotel. They look cheap and well.. come on now… seriously… thanks for the laugh though!

Too bad you tipped your hand already OP. If you’d kept your knowledge to yourself you could do more digging and get the truth. However, deep down you know something isn’t right.

Oh! And OP I don’t care why you were looking. Anyone asking about that is really trying to trim the cuticles of a severed hand. What you found is the issue right now.

I agree with @immersivereader

I also am sorry you are going through this. My suggestion is to keep your mouth shut if you want the truth. However, most of us know it all along and won’t admit it ourselves… I hope it’s some weird thing that doesn’t turn out to be what it looks like. I am sorry you have to go through any of this, even enough to question,

I was once cheated on by an ex who was emailing a woman he met on a dating site. She sent him photos a bit like this before sending topless ones. They were accompanied by emails so I knew for sure but the style of these pictures + his reaction make me think it’s in the same ball park, sorry OP.

I also don’t care why you were looking. I actively looked in my ex’s email because I sensed something was wrong. If I hadn’t looked he would have continued lying and I would never have known about his cheating.

I think the sending of the pics is fine - I send girlfriends pics of eg a super hot man, or someone from work trying to look sexy on social media. That is fine.

But his reaction is SO weird! That would make me suspicious.

Keep at him OP