NC but been on here for over a decade.
I'm at the end of my rope with DP, he has huge debts and never has any money for days out, commuting to work, savings etc.
He does work but his past stupidity financially means he is paying a huge amount every month on his debt (nothing to show for it, he spent loans etc on trips to Amsterdam, golf holidays etc).
The finances are a huge source of stress for me as I am very sensible with money. We have a ds together who is 1, and I have two other dc. My dc adore him which is one reason why it's hard to ask him to leave.
His dm is also terminally ill, and I feel like such a bitch if I kick him out of my home at this time.
He is very lazy around the house and isn't respectful of my boundaries. He watches me in bed on the baby cam, caught him doing this several times. He is constantly checking my online status on social media.
His hygiene is pretty poor, he went 5 days without a shower last week then argued it was 'only' 4 days.
Last night I went to bed and fell asleep, I woke to a hand full of cum, he used me to pleasure himself whilst I was asleep and I feel violated, that this is the final nail in the coffin.
Am I overreacting? I ask as he always makes me feel like I blow things out of proportion