what trait takes you from 99 to 1 in a date in a second?

[BobbiPinsOn]

for me its
mememe syndrome!

A bit random but:

Telling me they 100% don't believe in ghosts (or God for that matter). I know we won't get on. Not because of a difference in belief but because I think anyone who can say these things with certainty like that, is probably quite arrogant.

Someone who snaps their fingers at a server in a bar / restaurant to get attention or generally acts in a rude / shitty / patronising manner in that kind of situation.

I'm not dating but I think if a man mentioned he wasn't seeing his kids or he had an acrimonious relationship with his ex it would be instant dump.

Halitosis

Bad breath.

Calling his ex a psycho

@BobbiPinsOn Why do you keep starting these sorts of posts? No massive objections to you being a journalist or similar, but you really should announce it and be transparent from the outset.

Saying he doesn't like to travel and he's a mummy's boy. Total fkn turn off.

Bad foot wear or teeth

Grotty nails. Bad breath.

Mean tipper

Rude to venue staff, tight-fisted.

All sorts of things.

Being insulting/confrontational. Seeming to have a bad temper. Being sexually coarse. 'Narcissism'/boasting (after my last ex.) The last one is difficult because it makes it difficult if any of them says anything positive about themselves. I'm sure some would manage to say it in a way that's not a turn-off. Definitely rude to staff, or moaning to me about the cost of a meal (never anywhere overly costly.) The list is endless.

I've not started dating again yet, so that's just going on what I said I'd never puut up with again, and how I feel looking at Bumble profiles.

Impotence.

Having kids , being a big drinker or using drugs at all, no sense of humour, being a workaholic ..... now that I've started this list it's amazing I ever found anyone at all 🤣

BO and/or Rudeness. Can’t abide either.

Saying would of/could of/should of. Halitosis. Staring at me. Agreeing with everything I say. Having no conversation at all.

Bigotry, disliking children and referring to addicts as “junkies” are a few off the top of my head…. Being too “woo” would also be a massive no from me.

Reading the Daily Mail

Picky eater or noisy eater

Agree with so many up there, physically dirty teeth....treating waiter/waitress with rudeness, being mean, also any racist or overly sex comments, just been a dick would turn me right off. Not planning on dating any time soon...oh also no matter what you say if they have to disagree just for the sake of it and in an aggressive way, just so they can be right, had this before, it is tiresome.

I have come back with more… Bigotry, Homophobia, Religious or political extremism, and a history of “Psycho” exes.

Oops! And kids that he never sees.

Anything suggesting hes a Mummy’s boy! See ya!