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Is he making excuses?

54 replies

emmerfail · 10/09/2021 19:17

I have been with my BF for 3 years.
We both have kids with previous partners and don't live together.
It's my best friends wedding tomorrow.
He's known for a year.
I reminded him two months ago to get a babysitter for his kids (12 and 7)
Yesterday he said he can't come as his mum and dad are going camping so no sitter.

My friend said his kids are welcome.
I text him and he replied they are at footy training at 9 tomorrow...so it would be too much of a rush.

He just doesn't want to come does he?
1.he would have organised a sitter or swapped days with his ex
2.he could easily let his kids miss football for 1 week

What do you think ?

OP posts:
SarahBellam · 13/09/2021 04:18

What a low grade man. You deserve far better. Hope you met someone amazing at the wedding.

Monty27 · 13/09/2021 04:29

He's put his children before the wedding. I would do that too.

QueenBee52 · 13/09/2021 04:30

@Monty27

He's put his children before the wedding. I would do that too.

No he didn't.. He used his kids as a feeble excuse to get out of a Wedding invite... instead of being honest weeks ago and just saying No he wouldn't be attending...

Monty27 · 13/09/2021 04:35

I suppose there was lying involved.
In which case I'd dump him for that without any hesitation.

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