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My mum hates and is jealous of my sister

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Simplicity1011 · 09/09/2021 12:02

Ever since we was little my mum has never liked my sister, from things like locking her in cupboards and dark rooms to make her stop crying, from cutting her hair to teach her a lesson to stop trimming her hair, to not letting her go on school trips to her end of year school play, to making us hide from her in the park so my sister thought we had all left her..
To things like saying she shows off when she walks and acts up for my dad.. to not letting her put her drink in the fridge to things like saying she shows off when she buys herself ice cream so my sister stoped buying things like that. Basically every little thing my sister done my mum had a problem with it.. right till this day..
She has told my sis she’s the reason her and my dads marriage is broken.. the list goes on..
She also said she feels nothing for my sis
I just want to know what is wrong with my mum and why she is like this ..

OP posts:
Simplicity1011 · 11/09/2021 12:40

But thank you guys so much for all the amazing advice xx

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RandomMess · 11/09/2021 12:53

Please carry on inviting her over to your home so she gets to feel normal human warmth and connection.

Drip drip drip her staying overnights and then perhaps eventually moving in.

I wonder if you "need" her to visit/stay overnight then perhaps she'll find it easier to say yes?

BlackAlys · 11/09/2021 15:33

@RandomMess

Please carry on inviting her over to your home so she gets to feel normal human warmth and connection.

Drip drip drip her staying overnights and then perhaps eventually moving in.

I wonder if you "need" her to visit/stay overnight then perhaps she'll find it easier to say yes?

That's such a good idea. Can you think of any reason to 'help' you out and it'll mean her staying overnight?

Why on Earth is your mother telling your DSis that your father wants nothing to do with her? What's his part in this?

whynotwhatknot · 11/09/2021 19:31

Sorry did you say your mum and dad are together or not

is he abused aswell

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