As my nc suggests, am I being silly ?

[amibeingsillyagain]

Partner of a year still has ex of a few weeks ( pre me by a year) on social media and has liked her updated photo.no
Comments , Just. a simple
Like . I'm feeling jealous . Am I being
Silly ?

Probably but hey your feelings are your feelings and you can't help that. I would probably feel the same, that's why I don't have fb, saves so much hassle.

Thanks.
Anyone else ?

I’d definitely feel jealous too, I think that’s normal. But a like usually doesn’t mean anything. Sometimes I even click like accidentally esp if I’m on Facebook app.

I don't think he has interest on her or
Anything but still.... I've had a wine or two so wondering if I'm being silly.

I don't get how the ex is a few weeks if you've been together a year. Confused.

Anyway, I'd be jealous but it is a bit silly.

Sorry. They were together only for a few weeks and then we met well afterwards and are together a year

He is very committed and we are so happy but still.... I'm a bit

He has a habit of 'liking' bloody everything on sm !

I’m not surprised you are 🥴 why is he still watching her ?

Not watching but are still sm
Friends . Her photo was an update on sm
So would have appeared on his feed .they are not in contact outside of being sm friends

Any other thoughts ?

I wouldn't like it. My DP knows this and wouldn't disrespect me by liking any updates.
I don't think you're being silly but maybe don't say anything until alc-free

You're potentially being silly. Both my partner and I are "friends" and also real life friends with people we've had unimportant, brief relationships with before meeting each other. Sometimes you have a bit of a thing with someone then realise it's not happening, but it's amicable and you become friends instead. If it's that then you've no reason to feel threatened.

I've no reason to feel
Threatened whatsoever but when I saw him liking an update , I didnt like it .

They don't interact at all
Outside of ' liking ' updates . A casual
Like . But I still don't Like it . Am I projecting here ?

I would feel very jealous and irritated by that too! But it means nothing I am sure
And as you said he likes people's posts etc so it's him just being how he normally would when it comes up on his feed.
Honestly, don't worry at all!

Thanks @Bethany7 .I feel
RidiculoUs . He could t be more committed and loving . Too much wine 🍷

Yes I get you, an ex of just a few weeks and still likes her pics two years later, it's creepy I expect she probably feels the same does she like anything of him back? then I'd be worried more

Yes she also adds a simple
Like to his updates .

Yeah, silly but you’re human.

I like my ex’s photos every now and then because he’s a good guy and I like him. You’ve been together for far longer than they ever made it. Try and shake it off.

Thanks . Feeling a bit shaky at the moment. X

@amibeingsillyagain

Thanks . Feeling a bit shaky at the moment. X

you’re being ridiculous

@amibeingsillyagain

Thanks . Feeling a bit shaky at the moment. X

Totally normal. Try and enjoy your relationship :)

Thanks girls xxx

Is it something in the nature of the photo that makes you think its inappropriate for him to be liking it? if it was her in undies that would be different to a casual pic in the park with her dog, for instance