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As my nc suggests, am I being silly ?

39 replies

amibeingsillyagain · 26/08/2021 21:27

Partner of a year still has ex of a few weeks ( pre me by a year) on social media and has liked her updated photo.no
Comments , Just. a simple
Like . I'm feeling jealous . Am I being
Silly ?

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amibeingsillyagain · 26/08/2021 23:38

Oh god no! Just a selfie ! Lots of silly
Stars and filters .

OP posts:
amibeingsillyagain · 27/08/2021 09:05

So the wine's worn off and yip, I think I was being silly and just jealous.
Sm can really mess with your head at times.Thanks for measures responses!

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Peace43 · 27/08/2021 09:11

You are being proper "boil a bunny". It's one like on one photo and you say he likes everything on SM. He probably gave it zero thought and just liked it along with 50 other things that day. Take a deep breath and stop being so melodramatic.

LittleBiscuit09 · 27/08/2021 09:25

Usually I say go with your gut. If it's making you feel uncomfortable bank it and keep an eye.

This one action isn't cause for a major argument, but watch and go about your business.

You could always check her old recent photos to see how often he's liked them. Every photo, or a couple

amibeingsillyagain · 27/08/2021 09:40

Just checked. He hasn't liked every photo, just now and then.

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Letthelightoflove · 27/08/2021 09:43

I think it might be the wine that was messing with your head, given you seem to be rational about it this morning. Might be worth considering….

amibeingsillyagain · 27/08/2021 09:44

You are right about the wine !

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girlmom21 · 27/08/2021 09:47

I think you should stop monitoring her social media. Surely you're not friends with her?

They were only together for a few weeks. She's not even really an ex.
He's been with you for a year.

amibeingsillyagain · 27/08/2021 11:19

I know I'm being silly.

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Honeymare · 27/08/2021 12:04

I would feel jealous but I would be being silly. Don't bring it up with him. He interacts on FB an presses like frequently. The jealousy will pass and it's your issue, not his.

Honeymare · 27/08/2021 12:06

@Peace43

You are being proper "boil a bunny". It's one like on one photo and you say he likes everything on SM. He probably gave it zero thought and just liked it along with 50 other things that day. Take a deep breath and stop being so melodramatic.
Charming. How is she proper boil a bunny? She has said nothing to him, offloaded here anonymously while stating that she knows she's being silly. It's called exploring your feelings.
Lolabray · 27/08/2021 12:21

It is normal to feel a little jealous.. I’ve just ended my relationship for similar after 3.5 years of us being together she thinks it’s ok to post on his wall, he thinks it’s ok to ignore me when i say I don’t feel she should be doing it.

Lolabray · 27/08/2021 12:21

Peace43
You are being proper "boil a bunny". It's one like on one photo and you say he likes everything on SM. He probably gave it zero thought and just liked it along with 50 other things that day. Take a deep breath and stop being so melodramatic.

Wow 😮

Cheeseycheeseycheesecheese · 27/08/2021 12:24

@amibeingsillyagain

He has a habit of 'liking' bloody everything on sm !
In this case yes a bit silly because he like happy. However, your feelings are your feelings, and you're entitled to them, I think if I were you, the illogical me would be jealous and then I'd be at odds with the logical me knowing he just likes anything and everything
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