Dp married young and had 3 kids before he was 30.
They’ve now been divorced more than 10 years now but he’s still heavily involved with his ex’s family and friends.
Whilst I accept that he’ll always be connected to his ex’s family and friends, AIBU to think that if he’s serious about a new relationship with me, that he needs to put us first? For example I recently had an emergency medical situation and called him from A&E but he wasn’t able to come to hospital because he was busy helping his ex SIL to move into her new flat and he didn’t want to let her down.