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Niece told she looks like a whore and dresses like a slut by her Dad's live in partner

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WhiskeyGalore212 · 05/08/2021 19:27

My niece, a teenager, dresses in the sort of goth/emo etc style and incorporates skater skirts, playsuits, fish net tights etc. My other niece wears similar stuff abd I've seen lots of other teenage and early twenties girls young women wear similar.

She tells me, when going to school in a skater style skirt that was above knee length but not ass skimming etc that her father's live-in partner (a mum of two boys who live there too) said "you look like a whore" referring to the skirt.

This was said in front of the two boys and father at breakfast.

She was pushed to apologise to my niece by her father but later essentially reiterated what she said by saying something along the lines of "you're in no position to criticise (referring to something about her son) when your dad dresses like a slut".

Niece overheard this (or it was said in front of her, not sure which).

The dad has taken no further action.

Opinions?

OP posts:
Plumtree391 · 06/08/2021 23:00

@WhiskeyGalore212

Niece is 15 coming 16 BTW.
Poor kid having to live with someone who says things like that about her appearance. It's good that her dad stuck up for her.

I wonder if the dad's partner has ever been young.

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