Is he cheating?

[Snoop85]

In a nutshell, he disappeared again this weekend to his friends house because we had an argument. He ignored me most of the time and then finally came home at 12.30 in the morning. He has cheated in the past so I asked to look at his phone. He happily unlocked it and past it to me. Everything had been deleted from Friday night and over the weekend. No history on absolutely anything. He says he just didn’t use his phone all weekend. What am I meant to think?

What ARE you thinking?

It's not looking good tho is it. Have you started formulating your Plan B?

Cheating or not, this isn’t much of a relationship is it ?

Does it matter if he's cheating. Do you really want to be in a relationship like this?.

What am I meant to think?

That every minute with him is a minute stolen from the life you should be having with a better man.

Better men don't fuck off to punish you or ignore you or play silly beggars with their phones.

Fuck him off and get a better man.

You are mean't to think why am I with someone who makes me unhappy.

Why not find someone who doesn't want to ignor you and would worry about you if you disappered overnight.

Just think, someone wanting you for a change.
It could happen.

Come on now. Really? You're really still with this complete and utter fuckwit?

Thankfully I don’t rely on him for anything at all

@Snoop85

Thankfully I don’t rely on him for anything at all

Brilliant! Then that makes this all so easy, doesn't it? Get the fuck out of there and don't look back.

Your right.

Thankfully I don’t rely on him for anything at all

Well currently he has you posting on an Internet forum and has stolen your peace of mind, so you might want to rethink that statement

As pathetic as it may seem, I’m quite scared of being alone

You are alone. He doesn't care about you and is playing you for a fool. No one who actually loves you would ever treat you like this. You have been alone in this relationship for a very long time.

Then you certainly do rely on him

Thank you

Being alone is nowhere near as bad as being lonely in a relationship OP.

Your right. And so is everyone else. I am alone. He doesn’t what me.

You shouldn't want Him 🌸

I know. I really don’t want to after reading all of these messages

I genuinely feel when a relationship reaches the point of checking your spouses phones, that crosses into prisoner/probationaty officer territory. If thats the price you want to pay to say "you have a boyfriend" youre in a lot more trouble than you want to admit.
Your relationship is already over and hes just staying because its convenient to him. The second he finds something better, he will leave you

Probationary officer**

Wow. Thanks

How are you feeling today @Snoop85 ?

Confused. But I know your all right

I’m sorry

Please don’t be. I needed to hear it