Hello everyone- please can I have some advice. I have been with my OH for 8 years. I will try and keep it short. I sold my house and moved in with him last November (bought a plot of land we are supposed to be building our own house) I knew he had quirky ways but hadn’t realised he wouldn’t let my then 17 year old daughter not come and stay blaming Covid. I would have never moved up if I knew he would never let her stay Even though his daughter came and went between parents she does week on week off . He had asked me to leave numerous times since then I in May took a job which had accomodation with it as I was sick of being asked to leave and having to sleep on my older daughters sofa. I have been dividing my time between both but he’s very vocal on how often I see my children and my friends and I have to be very careful with what I plan as not to upset him. Why do I have to spend a full on week with him and his daughter but I can’t see my own? I walk on broken egg shells around him as I don’t do anything right as his house load the dishwasher hang the washing etc. My dogs were a massive problem for him I have two small one’s they are ten years old he suddenly decided he didn’t want them there. Because I saw my daughter three times last week and went for breakfast with my son he says I am gallivanting. A couple of weeks ago we went out got the train there he had a sulk when we came out of the restaurant I honestly don’t know what I said and he stormed off I had to walk all through the town get the train and walk home by myself in the dark he just left me. He slags my children off something rotten which I can’t stand to hear. I am too embarrassed to talk to my friends about it. Although they have been there when he’s had a stroop and gone off and my children are not enamoured with him.
Please please help me is this normal behaviour…😌