Wrists grab is this ok

[Meesechelt]

Tonight’s been horrendous. I don’t normally like football but it’s England and it’s history in making I get it either win or lose however since showing that interest it’s just gone a little haywire here but I think I’m being a bit daft ? Or I
Know I’m not being daft but seeking reassurance if honest. There’s now a hole in our bedroom door and my arm was twisted from the wrist. I talk with my hands bbq a lot so gesticulate all the time but me getting excited with the football seemed to make my husband less interested in it. He shouted at me that I’d be calling police etc I don’t see how but why does it have to be that I can’t be excited or have an opinion ?

It's not clear what's happened OP.

You were getting excited, he twisted your wrist and punched a wall?

What happened?

Op can you tell us a little more about what actually happened? However, violence is never ok.

I'm not sure what happened here OP
did your husband hurt you?
because that's not OK, no

Huh?

Do you mean he put a hole in the door and twisted your wrist? (That would be abuse btw. And there was a post earlier today on this forum about how cases of physical violence against women rises by 26% when England plays footy).

Or do you mean that you got so excited that you twisted your wrist?

I’m sorry I half typed and deleted and didn’t typed properly sorry. He’s got angry at me getting excited at the football it’s gone to an argument and he’s grabbed my wrist mid me talking and has twisted it the. He’s got mad and punched the door so I tried to calm him to which he’s twisted same arm . He is sulking because he thinks I’ll call police ( last thing he shouted before shutting door of room)

Where is he now OP?

Has he done anything like this before?

You should call the police - he’s assaulted you

No it's not ok unless it was to stop someone getting hurt. If it's because he's pissed at you getting interested in 'his' thing then that's abuse

Call the police right now

Get the bastard out

He will go on to do much worse

Believe me !!!

You should call the police.
He physically hurt you and put a hole in your door (which was an intimidation tactic to say 'this is what I could do to you' btw).

And now he is 'sulking' ?
He is a piece of shit. Probably didnt like it that you were happy and so had to destroy your evening.

Ltb

Have you got somewhere safe you could go OP? Out of the house and away from him?

It's not ok @Meesechelt
It's really not ok , ever

You poor woman
Your husband is an abuser
Are there children in the house?
Are you ok?

He's right, you should call the police. I hope you do, and I hope you are OK.

That sounds horrible. It think perhaps the posts read a little bit confused because you are shaken up?
Are you safe? If not please don't hesitate to call the police.

Is there anywhere safe you can go, are there children in the house?

Call the police.

Get the children snd get out. Call the police press 55 if you are scared he will hear you doing it

This is seriously not OK but you know that already. The question is, are you going to let him get away with it or are you going to call the Police.

Please call the police and leave him. I'm talking from experience, this doesn't get better.

What an a hole. I'd shit in his tea. Does he think he owns football? Pathetic excuse of a man. How dare he treat you like that. Tell him next time he does that you will call the police. I'd take photos of the wrists.

I’m sorry I know my message was full of typing errors . I’m actually sat fine and ok and in the spare bed . There’s no other noises nothing. He has gone to bed it seems but it means he’s missed the end and I’m worried now that I’ll be blamed for that ( not physically I’m not saying he will
Hurt me I just me in terms of his mood)

He even knew it was bad enough to call the police. Find some courage and call them now.