You are massively underreacting.
What happens was abuse and it will happen again and it will escalate. I promise you that’s how these things work.
Ignore people on here saying you sound drunk or criticising your posting style - it’s fine that you weren’t in the clearest headspace. You’d been attacked and you were scared.
If you feel able it would be really good to talk to a friend or family member in real life about this.
If you don’t feel up to that but would like to keep posting on here then that’s a really good first step.
You could call the national domestic violence hotline on 0808 2000 247 or if you don’t feel able to call you can use their live chat function by googling ‘refuge live chat’ or similar. You could also try contacting Women’s Aid.
There’s a pinned post at the top of the relationships board called ‘Listen Up’ or something like that with lots of useful information if you felt up to reading that.
He will either continue to ignore what happened and just expect you to ignore it too (with the threat of what might happen if you annoy him again always there) or he will be desperately sorry and swear blind it will never happen again - that’s a lie too. Or else there will be excuses and blaming you. But it was not your fault, there’s no excuse on earth that could make it ok, even if you were loud, even if you were waving your hands around like a windmill, even if he was annoyed, even if he was stressed with he football, even if he’d had a terrible day at work and the whole world is against him and he just couldn’t help himself etc etc. He was still violent and abusive to the one person he’s supposed to love and protect most. That’s who he is - he’s someone who chooses to grab a woman’s arm/ wrist and twist them to leave bruises and then kick/ punch holes in doors over pretty much nothing at all. He’s shown you who he is.