DH and I both work full time from home, we have no kids or pets.
I am feeling a bit annoyed because DH has been home all day and there was still dirty dishes in the sink from last night. I'd been out with a friend and am sorting dinner tonight, so I ended up doing the dishes as well. He's watching a TV series.
I do the majority of the meals, I don't really cook from scratch very often because I'm not that great at cooking myself and he's super fussy about food (has Asperger's and there's lots he won't eat due to textures etc) but as it stands I sort dinner for us both around 3 times a week, we usually get a takeaway at the weekend or sometimes go out for dinner. I try to have a couple of nights where I cook for myself so can have healthy food/eat the things I like that he doesn't. He will cook (burgers or pasta) once a week usually.
Housework wise he will occasionally do the dishes and hoover. He said he likes hoovering. He does forget sometimes (says he doesn't see any dirt etc) so I sometimes end up doing that as well. I do majority of dishes (previously we'd have it done by whomever wasn't making dinner) but now he's said whoever makes dinner should wash up too. Occasionally he will start washing up himself and I feel guilty about it for some stupid reason.
I clean the bathroom, wash towels and bedding and hang it out (both do our own clothes). Put bins out and bring it in. Mow lawn and other gardening stuff (including trimming tall tree branches). I also do all the driving as he doesn't have a UK licence yet, and handle all the life admin, bills and appointments, most holiday bookings etc. He gives me some money each month toward bills.
Should he be pulling his weight more? I suggested a rota once and he just laughed. Just feeling a bit annoyed tonight I guess, shame because I had a nice day.