Hot gym guy gave me his number

[areyouhavingagiraffe]

Okay....so been making very small talk with hot guy at gym, but today we stopped and chatted for a while, he was leaving and I was arriving. Anyway, he asked me what time I was coming in tomorrow and I said around 11ish, but he said he was coming early. Then he said 'maybe we could train together", I sort of smiled and said "yeah", he asked me if I was on "insta", this made me laugh as I think he is a lot younger than I am. I said no and then he said "how about WhatsApp". I said yes and then next thing you know he is giving him number and I am shaking whilst trying to remember how to add a contact in my phone. This sort of thing does not happen to me.... What do I do now? Message, not message, wait a few days. The "incident" occurred this morning, ha ha ha

Begging you to keep us in the loop!!!

Netflix and chill is code for come on over 🥳🥳🥳

@Rosehip10

Is this private or council run gym?

Private

Yayy, keep us posted OP. All your updates are great!!

Little does this poor guy know the whole of MN are rooting for our @areyouhavingagiraffe to get a good shag
In the best possible taste of course 😉

I say go for it, as long as he isn't living with a parent and you calculate you aren't actually old enough to be his mother without being a teenager at the time, iyswim. 20 year gap or less. Or a little more if he's really gorgeous. Just think what you could teach him. 🤔

Never mind his WhatsApp game; that's easily tweaked if it gets serious. 😉

@NewlyGranny who cares about the age gap so long as he’s legal and built like a god hahaha 💁🏻‍♀️

Sometimes I find the best looking ones are crap in bed though! They don’t think they need to try…

Shamelessly placemarking!!

Is the Netflix and Chill an invite to go over??

Suggest it for tomorrow? Unless you prefer to go out for a drink first, make sure he is actually nice before going back to his

Play it casual, it's all good. He gave you his number, you were polite & text him yours. IF he's interested, he'll make the effort. Don't overthink it.

Make sure you never leave this thread hanging... imagine in a few years it's still going you've moved in together and had a baby got married and can read him the start of the thread at some point 😂😂😂 brilliant love this !

@areyouhavingagiraffe

Okay, he is asking me whether I live alone etc......And telling me is going to put on some Netflix and chill 🤣

Netflix and chill is code for sex isn’t it?

This is brilliant 😆

I've never been a bridesmaid ....
Just saying ... 😘

@66babe

I've never been a bridesmaid .... Just saying ... 😘

Dying with laughter. Okay so there's been lots of whatsapp chat. He said he's 35...but I think he has overinflated his age as I said I'm 43 first. Guys have done that before. I may ask for ID.... Just general chit chat all evening. It's been nice. I am going to feel embarrassed if I see him at the gym tomorrow, won't be able to keep a straight face. I'm such a child 🤦🏽‍♀️

Does he have a brother?

Apparently, he does!

Shamelessly placemaking. Loving this thread. Great advice throughout so far. Good luck OP!

I LOVE these threads….. the gardener/one toothed builder. They are the best!

Don’t ever leave us hanging OP and good luck 🏋️

Why do you think he’s inflated his age? Did he say that after you’d said your age or something?

@Honeyroar

Why do you think he’s inflated his age? Did he say that after you’d said your age or something?

Yeah. He said it after. And then he said "what if I said I was in my 20's?". Anyway, defo asking for photo ID

Ask him to send you a pic of his id Haha

Love this thread!! The stuff of top-notch fantasies. Good luck op.