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Hot gym guy gave me his number

226 replies

areyouhavingagiraffe · 25/06/2021 17:42

Okay....so been making very small talk with hot guy at gym, but today we stopped and chatted for a while, he was leaving and I was arriving. Anyway, he asked me what time I was coming in tomorrow and I said around 11ish, but he said he was coming early. Then he said 'maybe we could train together", I sort of smiled and said "yeah", he asked me if I was on "insta", this made me laugh as I think he is a lot younger than I am. I said no and then he said "how about WhatsApp". I said yes and then next thing you know he is giving him number and I am shaking whilst trying to remember how to add a contact in my phone. This sort of thing does not happen to me.... What do I do now? Message, not message, wait a few days. The "incident" occurred this morning, ha ha ha

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66babe · 25/06/2021 19:56

Tell him something like " it was great, really feel better after I've trained .. just can't get those flutes any bigger !"
Hopefully he'll respond with either
They look fine to me .. or
I'll help you with that lol

66babe · 25/06/2021 19:56

Glutes!!!!!!!!!

areyouhavingagiraffe · 25/06/2021 19:58

Flutes, ha ha

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66babe · 25/06/2021 20:01

I know I know 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤣

BearOfEasttown · 25/06/2021 20:06

@areyouhavingagiraffe He's after a shag. Not hard to see that.

Thewiseoneincognito · 25/06/2021 20:08

OP!!! Good for you! Play it super cool and keep us posted! 😬😬😬

LazenbyLane · 25/06/2021 20:10

I still think this is about him wanting some PT work - hope not - but tread carefully.

HermioneWeasley · 25/06/2021 20:13

OMG, I’m super excited for you! Bang the hot gym guy!

(Am I getting ahead of myself?)

areyouhavingagiraffe · 25/06/2021 20:17

Omg his whatsapp photo is so pretentious. And he is using the word LOL. I really hate that, it is so off putting. Now you know why I am single 🤣

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areyouhavingagiraffe · 25/06/2021 20:17

[quote BearOfEasttown]@areyouhavingagiraffe He's after a shag. Not hard to see that.[/quote]
Good. I could do with a shag

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Psuedoshoes · 25/06/2021 20:20

I'm overly invested already - I've sworn off men for a few years so I have to live vicariously Grin Please keep us updated!!

Willwebebuyingnumber11 · 25/06/2021 20:21

Good for you op! Some harmless fun with 2 consenting adults, I really don’t understand why this is sneered at. You aren’t looking for wedding dresses!
He’s hot. Go for it!

Polkadots2021 · 25/06/2021 20:21

Omg meet him for a training session already, he's a hot gym dude, we all call it training, I bet his photo is more gym pose than pretentious and I bet he'll be a great shag. Total win Grin

areyouhavingagiraffe · 25/06/2021 20:23

Ha ha ha, I am loving these comments.

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Viviennemary · 25/06/2021 20:27

I agree with sending him your number.

MaybeCrazy2 · 25/06/2021 20:29

Ffs! How long have you been going to the gym? Are you super hot?

I don’t even get the PTs coming up to me, let alone a guy who is actually hot! 😂

Enjoy it op!!
I’m totally jealous! I would love a fit guy to train with!!

66babe · 25/06/2021 20:30

And I'm loving your response to " he's just after a shag!" 🤣

areyouhavingagiraffe · 25/06/2021 20:31

@MaybeCrazy2

Ffs! How long have you been going to the gym? Are you super hot?

I don’t even get the PTs coming up to me, let alone a guy who is actually hot! 😂

Enjoy it op!!
I’m totally jealous! I would love a fit guy to train with!!

A long time. But no, am not super hot!
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MaybeCrazy2 · 25/06/2021 20:31

Maybe she is just after a shag....
nothing wrong with exercising “toooogetheeeer” 😉

macon · 25/06/2021 20:34

I'm liking the flutes typo. Suggest you text back "Ooh, I think there's a bone in my flute, Mr Hot Gym Guy".

BuffySummersReportingforSanity · 25/06/2021 20:38

Ask him for a drink, give him a test ride. I reckon it's about 50:50 whether he'll be good or shite.

OneMamaAndHerGirl · 25/06/2021 20:46

[quote BearOfEasttown]@areyouhavingagiraffe He's after a shag. Not hard to see that.[/quote]
So what! If a hot buff gym dude wanted to shag me I wouldn’t say no. OP enjoy yourself!

areyouhavingagiraffe · 25/06/2021 20:47

Okay, this is cracking me up!!!!
So, there is some chit chat about how much his shoulders are on fire, blah blah blah. Asking me what plans I have this evening? I don't want to tell him I am seeing my folks, and have just eaten a massive fish and chips...And I'm in my tracky bums. What excitement can I make up? 🤣

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notmethenwho · 25/06/2021 20:49

You could tell him you're "bulking" GrinWink

EllieStartingOver · 25/06/2021 20:50

You are just so friends (us, obviously!) keep it vague…

How old is he?? I need to know