So a guy I’ve been seeing for a while. Told me he was ready for a relationship. Blah blah blah. We carried on seeing each other. He’s expressed a few times about being jealous T the thought of me being with other men. But always jokingly so I always brushed it off.
I’ve got another date and he asked me to at least be honest with him so I told him. He reacted badly and said “he’s hurt at the thought, he knows in his mind that I’m entitled to find someone who is a better fit for me. He really really likes me, has a lot of love for me, it hurts his heart but he would like to know how it goes as it will change us.”
I told him to be honest I thought we were a dead end because he shut down the idea of a relationship. He said he works on his own timeline, he needs to work on himself because I deserve the best pf him. I can appreciate what he’s saying but he’s really still upset about me going on a date. I told him I’m single so I will, regardless of his feelings.
He’s having me on isn’t he. He doesn’t want me but doesn’t want anyone else to have me