Anyone actually enjoy giving BJs?

[Loveandlust]

Sorry to be crass but OH and I are at a point where we've had our 4th baby within the last 6 months and my self esteem regarding my body is pretty low but I'm working on it. We hardly ever have sex and neither of us seem to mind as we're both knackered. However we have talked about it and feel like we probably should make more of an effort. I just cannot bring myself to do all those things like BJs, different positions etc like when I was younger. I'm not sure I ever loved doing those things tbh. When we do have sex it's ok. Is this just tiredness??? Anyone actually enjoy giving BJs? Does the spark cone back??

No. Absolutely hated it. Revolting.

Eh I can take it or leave it. I don't get anything out of it. But I don't care for receiving either - it does nothing for me.

LOL! Same!😂

Not really. I can hear my jaw clicking open inside my head when I change my mouth opening and it makes.me really ick

I love giving oral. I like the feeling, his reaction and I like dicks generally. A lot of people think they're ugly but I love the elegant sculptural quality of an election.

Really want to give my DH a BJ now after this thread 😂😂.

I am a spitter mind!

I used to love it, in fact some of my partners really disappointed me because they didn't want it.
Hitting menopause I've now got no interest in sex any more so wouldn't want to bother.

I really doubt thought that I'd be interested in doing anything other than sleep if I had 4 kids and was in your situation.

Well this thread is eye-opening! Genuinely astounded that anyone likes giving them. I don't hate it - but do find it a bit unpleasant, or at least uncomfortable. The gag, the jaw stress, face muscle ache!

Absolutely love it, such a turn on and he loves the bit between the balls and anus being licked, which also turns me on. Receiving it is one of the best feelings in the world!

ThePastafarian I agree, I had no idea so many women actually enjoy it. I find it hard work and get absolutely nothing from it...

Breastfeeding killed my libido too. And I have a high sex drive.

You've resurrected a year old thread to give blow job tips? 😂

I've only read the first page so this may have already been mentioned, but breastfeeding lowers your libido (something to do with making sure you don't get pregnant again too soon apparently).

ZOMBIE

My gag reflex gets in the way. I don’t enjoy it at all so no longer do it which is a shame because I find the idea sexy just not the reality!

I like giving them but only if it’s clean down there

I love it. The favour is always returned. Would feel differently if it wasn’t.

It's not for me. I think sex should be a mutual thing. If he's getting head and I'm getting nothing then no.

It depends on the partner, tbh. It’s not something I enjoy for it’s own sake,‘physically.

There's an Uber driver round our way called Colin.
He does.
Apparently.

I don't mind as long as someone isn't finishing in my mouth.

To issue is though that a lot of women give BJ and the balance seems very uneven that isn't on tbh! Unless it's something you don't enjoy yourself!

I enjoy the sense of power and the response. If a hand goes on top of my head I am instantly turned off. Goes without saying he has to be clean.

I like it as long there's strong sexual chemistry. Hated doing it when I was younger but that was because I was with a guy where there wasn't a real spark.

If there's sexual chemistry, I love it, more for his reaction more than anything else.