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Dating

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spaggboll · 19/05/2021 18:37

Is anyone else not bothered about dating and being in a relationship?

I haven't been on a date for about a year. With online dating I had a few situationships. There was lots of chasing from the men I dated in the beginning. Then they gradually lost interest or decided they weren't ready for a relationship. I don't think
I can be bothered now.

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MrsBerthaRochester · 23/02/2022 14:40

Been single for five years. Had a lot of hook ups and a few fwb/fuck buddies but nothing for nearly a year.
I cannot be arsed with the lying, ghosting bullshit even when you are not looking for anything serious. Men are cunts.

RainyWales · 23/02/2022 14:42

@MrsBerthaRochester

Been single for five years. Had a lot of hook ups and a few fwb/fuck buddies but nothing for nearly a year. I cannot be arsed with the lying, ghosting bullshit even when you are not looking for anything serious. Men are cunts.

This is me!

MrsBerthaRochester · 23/02/2022 14:44

Oh and I DONT recommend the swingers lifestyle unless you looking to meet vile,cheating,fugly,over weight middle aged men who would literally stick their dick in a wet puddle.

CrumpetStrumpet · 23/02/2022 14:47

@MrsBerthaRochester Honestly cannot imagine anything grimmer than swinging. Middle aged paunchy men sweating all over you. Grim.

MrsBerthaRochester · 23/02/2022 15:19

I was in the lifestyle for over two years. At first I enjoyed it as it was an easy way to hook up without the faff. However the more involved I got the more I realised how grim it is. The VAST majority of men are on there without their wives/partners consent. They will literally fuck anything. profile says straight but they are meeting men and tv. Even women without profile pics get hundreds of lets meet messages a day.
In my experience and I include myself in this,most women in the swingers lifestyle are victms of abuse and trauma and its a form of self harm.

RainyWales · 23/02/2022 15:22

@MrsBerthaRochester

I was in the lifestyle for over two years. At first I enjoyed it as it was an easy way to hook up without the faff. However the more involved I got the more I realised how grim it is. The VAST majority of men are on there without their wives/partners consent. They will literally fuck anything. profile says straight but they are meeting men and tv. Even women without profile pics get hundreds of lets meet messages a day. In my experience and I include myself in this,most women in the swingers lifestyle are victms of abuse and trauma and its a form of self harm.

100% agree @MrsBerthaRochester

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