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I hate morning sex!

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itsanofromme12 · 08/05/2021 11:31

I don't know if this is the right topic but yeah, I hate morning sex! And everyone around me loves it, so surely there must be other people who don't like it?!
I'm such a morning person, not moody when I've woke up or anything.. I just like to chill on my phone at the weekend when I'm awake but every now and again DP will be like 👀 you fancy some morning sex 👀 but my heart drops, we laugh about it now because when he asks he says "I know, I know" cos he knows it's a big fat no but I feel so bad for him because clearly he wants it & I think am I being selfish not giving it a try but I just find it so awkward and just don't really enjoy it much or have any orgasm from morning sex, I think it's a confidence issue aswell as it's so light in the morning and morning sex involves eye contact as you can clearly see eachothers every thing! Me and DP have been together 2 years so are very comfortable and have a great sex life I've just never been a morning sex girl.. can anyone relate or am I just being selfish and need to get over it and give it a go? 😂

OP posts:
StarlightLady · 15/05/2021 13:57

I’ve almost always cleaned my teeth (and brushed my hair come to that) before sex. That’s not time of day related for me.

Whatsforteax · 15/05/2021 15:06

I always think when watching films and TV when they roll over and snog in the morning. Eww haha

80sPadme · 16/05/2021 18:03

I love any sex with DP and morning sex is a part of that, sometimes it's great and other times one or both just isn't feel by it first thing or a child comes in so we don't do morning sex. We have a lot of sex though like most days because we are both really highly sexual.
Morning sex for us is lazy, spooning or snuggly, my face buried in his chest so I don't wake up a child if I moan 😂 and his in my shoulder for same reason.
I prefer nighttime sex or when the kids are at school and we have the same day off 😋 best ever

Paradoxicaldichotomy · 16/05/2021 18:11

I also hate morning sex op. And I have a high sex drive. Mornings make me anxious. Too much to do. I hated it before having kids (when I used to wake up to 20 emails from my boss at 5am,) but even more now knowing on top of the stress of the day, the kids could come in at any point. I’m also not particularly horny in the morning.

I’ve met many men who are morning shaggers and it always makes my heart sink. As they get older too, they like mornings as they have fewer problems getting hard as haven’t been drinking and well rested.

You are not alone!

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