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Original poster

He sent me a message asking if I was asleep?

67 replies

LysaSwann · 03/05/2021 18:37

I went to a party with him and some people from our social circle. I left early telling him I was too drunk and tired.

I woke up at 11am today and I noticed he had sent me a message at 7 am asking me if I was asleep.

I only answered him at 11am "Not anymore, how are you?"

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midnightstar66 · 03/05/2021 18:58

He was just wondering if you were awake to either chat as he was still pissed and wanted company, or he thought you'd invite him round for some company or more. Quite a standard text and reply. (Yes you'd still be drunk at 11am
In those circumstances) it's not clear what you wanted from the post?

Original poster
LysaSwann · 03/05/2021 18:58

@LivingMyBestLife2020

Back to school tomorrow
I'm 27 thank you very much. Why are you being rude? What have Idone to you?
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Original poster
LysaSwann · 03/05/2021 18:59

@midnightstar66

He was just wondering if you were awake to either chat as he was still pissed and wanted company, or he thought you'd invite him round for some company or more. Quite a standard text and reply. (Yes you'd still be drunk at 11am In those circumstances) it's not clear what you wanted from the post?
Just to understand why my guy would text so early in the morning knowing that I told him I was going to sleep.
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midnightstar66 · 03/05/2021 19:00

Ah ok - refer back to the other points in my post then. Drunken chat or an invite wanted!

Original poster
LysaSwann · 03/05/2021 19:01

@midnightstar66

Ah ok - refer back to the other points in my post then. Drunken chat or an invite wanted!
I think he's pretty shy too... he's only forward when he's drunk
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Youdontknowwhatyoureonabout · 03/05/2021 19:03

why my guy would text so early in the morning knowing that I told him I was going to sleep

Something to ask him not clueless people on MN tbh.

Lalliella · 03/05/2021 19:06

Why are you going to parties? COVID!!!

Aprilx · 03/05/2021 19:07

Just to understand why my guy would text so early in the morning knowing that I told him I was going to sleep.

Does it matter? If so, ask him but I don’t think there is anything to understand.

Original poster
LysaSwann · 03/05/2021 19:08

@Lalliella

Why are you going to parties? COVID!!!
My country has opened up significantly.
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midnightstar66 · 03/05/2021 19:08

Why are you going to parties? COVID!!!

Covid police in record time 🙄

There are other parts of the world and even the UK with different covid restrictions to you!

Confusedaboutlots · 03/05/2021 19:08

feel like i’m reading a thread written by a 5 year old or in another language.

what are you actually talking about or asking OP? if you’re dating the guy just ask him.

the epitome of first world problems this one

GNCQ · 03/05/2021 19:09

Kaay so you left the party at 6, he texted you at 7. He maybe wondered if you were still awake so he could ask you a general question about your wellbeing/sext you//come round?

But you were asleep so he didn't send you any unsolicited dick picks or barge into your bedroom.

So he's keen. That's all.

Are u ok Hun? How's your hangover day?

AlmostSummer21 · 03/05/2021 19:12

If he's so wonderful, just ask him. Radical I know.

ShirleyPhallus · 03/05/2021 19:13

I honestly don’t know why everyone is being rude, I have seen many many far more pointless / nonsensical threads which have serious responses!

Regularsizedrudy · 03/05/2021 19:14

Because he was drunk. What do you want the answer to be? Because he wanted declare his undying love and ask you to marry him?

JackieTheFart · 03/05/2021 19:20

Because if you only left the party at 6am it’s not outside the realms of possibility you’d still be awake at 7am and up for a) booty call b) phone sex.

Also you didn’t ‘leave early’ you mad bint! I’m so jealous I have been to an all nighter for several years.

Original poster
LysaSwann · 03/05/2021 19:22

@Confusedaboutlots

feel like i’m reading a thread written by a 5 year old or in another language.

what are you actually talking about or asking OP? if you’re dating the guy just ask him.

the epitome of first world problems this one

English is not my first language, have some respect.
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GNCQ · 03/05/2021 19:24

English is not my first language, have some respect No one is psychic!
So has he replied?

PandaLady · 03/05/2021 19:28

Young people are so tame these days...

WhySoSensitive · 03/05/2021 19:30

Whhhaaaaat?

What’s the point of the thread op? A question? A worry?

Name99 · 03/05/2021 19:39

It's not really early is it if you left at 6am.
If you had left the night before and was in bed at 12 , 7am would be deemed early

Tambora · 03/05/2021 19:44

There's only one answer to that question, and it is: "Yes."

DIshedUp · 03/05/2021 19:45

Maybe he wanted to check you got home okay. Maybe he wanted a shag. Maybe he felt sad and fancied a chat. You'd only left an hour ago its hardly like he messaged you in the middle of the night

Original poster
LysaSwann · 03/05/2021 19:46

@GNCQ

English is not my first language, have some respect No one is psychic! So has he replied?
He replied to my response, yes
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Original poster
LysaSwann · 03/05/2021 19:46

@PandaLady

Young people are so tame these days...
Why do you care?
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