He sent me a message asking if I was asleep?

[LysaSwann]

I went to a party with him and some people from our social circle. I left early telling him I was too drunk and tired.

I woke up at 11am today and I noticed he had sent me a message at 7 am asking me if I was asleep.

I only answered him at 11am "Not anymore, how are you?"

It seems quite an innocuous text - I wouldn’t worry about it. He will still thinking about you after you’d left

People would be less shitty with you if you stated what your thread was asking for in the OP. It's a "cool story bro" moment.

Have you asked HIM why he text ?

Wow OP, you're pretty defensive!

Maybe it would help to clarify your position if you actually stated what your question was. What was your question to him and what was his reply?

And what is it you find so odd about him texting you an hour after you left the party? Is that not the done thing??

He was probably going to ask to come over, sounds like totally normal drunk behavior to me, it would be the same text even if you left at 2am and he text at 3am.

When are the cobid police ever going to shut up.

@HollowTalk

Six a.m.!!!!

Bloody hell, you've come out of lockdown with a bang, haven't you? Or not

Would have if op had replied to the booty call text LOL

You left the party to go to sleep. He text to see if you were asleep, plans change. Maybe you wanted breakfast first, maybe something funny or interesting happened and he would have called you if you were awake. Maybe he just wanted to have a chat before bed or hoped for an invite over.

I don't think there is any problem/bad reason for the text.

Have you asked him?

I get texts like that friends n family all the time cos they want a chat.
Ask him
Don't overanalyse basic human interaction

Or maybe you should have texted back saying "sorry I'm asleep"

@bonfireheart

Or maybe you should have texted back saying "sorry I'm asleep"

😁😁

@bonfireheart

Or maybe you should have texted back saying "sorry I'm asleep"

😂😂

I'm glad he didn't wake you up.

Why did he not go home with you if you were dating ?

Well that was 2 minutes of my life I won't get back 😂😂

@TheresAnEyeInMeSoup

Wow OP, you're pretty defensive!

Maybe it would help to clarify your position if you actually stated what your question was. What was your question to him and what was his reply?

And what is it you find so odd about him texting you an hour after you left the party? Is that not the done thing??

This. o If you start a thread, then people can only respond to what you've written.

Most people ask a question, then people know what they are responding to.
Or just let everyone know they want to share something exciting or worrying or a puzzle or something they think other people will be interested in discussing.

Your thread doesn't tick any box, so people are getting annoyed that you aren't telling them.

I don’t think it’s significant that he texted you when he did OP, or disrespectful in that he knew you wanted to sleep and was disturbing you as he would assume that your phone was on silent if you were actually asleep which I assume it was as you were in actual fact asleep.

Other than that, as others have said, he could have texted for many different reasons - for a chat, to organise your next date, to tell you something specific etc... Yes and as others have suggested, I would ask him.