Wanking audibly in bathroom, opinions pls

[MarshmallowAra]

This has been in my head for a long time from a former relationship.

We went to a nice place for a break (for his birthday), I think we had had sex once (not 100% sure), he must have expected or suggested sex again and I didn't go along with it (wasn't in the mood or whatever); and he went to the bathroom and rather audibly wanked. I don't think he closed the door fully (or maybe he did but he was loud enough to be heard).

I thought it was a bit weird and felt a bit uncomfortable.

He was slightly sulky I think when he went off; most of it went over my head because I'd never been with someone who.acted like that before.

The relationship finished for other reasons (I also found him verging on controlling, and quite jealous).

What would you think of a man who acted like that?

Would be a turn off for me. In that situation surely he could have held off at that time.

I had a date many many years ago now where the guy dropped me home and expected sex. When it was clear that wasn't going to happen this time, on our first date, he asked if he could just wank in my shower then?!
Never saw him again.

@ZingTrap

You should have let him......

Then invited the neighbours around to watch 😙

pretty sure this is something that could have happened to me when I was 18. And I would have thought the guy was an entitled shit bag then. Good riddance.