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Sexual assault or just got out of hand

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Fate32 · 25/04/2021 02:38

Partner and me have not been getting on for quite a few months, but still together (we have 3 children)

We still sleep in the same bed and both felt a bit frisky, he makes a move and I respond, nothing was said, but he starts getting very rough, mainly using his hands, couldn’t take much more (though I might faint) and he stops for a second and I ask him what he is doing, and I start to cry. Didn’t want to make a fuss as the children’s bedrooms are next to ours, he says he is sorry and sleeps downstairs and I go to the bathroom and I am covered in blood, it is all over the bed, my top etc, I go downstairs and tell him about the blood and he washes his hands.

I don’t know what to think, he has never done anything as bad as that before (been together over 20 years)

DawnMumsnet · 26/04/2021 15:48

Hi Fate32, we're really relieved to see your latest update, and that you've made contact with the sexual assault referral centre.

We can see you've had many helpful posts on your thread but we just wanted to add some links to organisations which can offer you a bit more support in real life.

Here's the Rape Crisis page on Where to start, which says: Whether it happened recently or in the past - or if you're not sure what happened - find help here to think through your options and next steps. If you don't feel able to talk about what happened, they have an online chat service - here's the link.

Here too is a link to Women's Aid - information and support. We know they've helped many Mumsnetters in the past, in particular with the Freedom Programme, so please take a look at their website.

We really hope you're okay.

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