Sorry for my pity party. But I am overwhelmed.
- Strained marriage because my H had written off everything until his last penny savings to my inlaws in his will to prove that he cares for them.
- Inlaws have now written away everything to my sil to prove they love her.
- I have been kept in dark about all this thinking my husband is actually saving for my children but as of he owns nothing to give away.
- To make it worse, I am a housewife; now desperately looking to earn because I cant rely on my H anymore after he betrayed me financially.
- I was home to take care of him with his deteriorating auto immune condition. The medication has now affected his liver and we are waiting for either the bad news or the worst news.
- My inlaws blame me for his auto immune condition as I am supposed to be keeping him healthy so that he could send his income to them.
- My mum suffers from depression since Inlost my dad and my sister has hydrocephelus which becomes worse with stress. I cant tell them both.
- I feel the storm is comming and I am not prepared. H might get sick/worse. I wont have a penny to survive nor my inlaws will give me anything as they have already written it off and they are down right greedy and wont acknowledge me or my children.
I am scared. I am lost. I cant talk to anyone.
On the outside, I have a good healthy husband ( I dont). I own a house ( solely depends on Hs ability to earn which is only going south). I am rich ( I am absolutely stuck and broke and have nothing in my name) and save a lot ( we send almost everything to inlaws as they have brainwashed my husband that he is a bad human being if he dosnt). My husband is the scape goat child to their daughter who is the golden child. They dont even care much about his liver problem, as long as the money comes in.. it should be ok 
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I know this senario is new to the western world. I am not looking for quick solutions. I think I just want to say it out . I am lost and crying.