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Guys sending each other porn?

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Whattodotho · 04/02/2021 15:30

Prepared to be shot down for not being cool wife about this. My partner this morning was like oh that'll be matt sending me some vidoes and opens phone can see on whatsap that he's been sent loads and he shows me some that are women getting there breasts or vaginas out.
I don't get it for reference my partner is his boss the guy who does it is in his 60s and honestly thought he was really lovely guy but just don't get it. Is it to wank too or for giggles. Just find it grotesque and my daughter also uses his phone so wouldn't want her to see this.

Any guys can explain. I just went ew and later said please don't show me that and he just said no worries.

I just don't like the idea that people share these videos to each other to laugh at. I guess I'm insecure but I think it's more than that it's just gross.but feel I have to be like yeah boys will be boys but it's given me the ick

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Countingthebeat · 06/02/2021 20:14

@funnylittlefloozie

Tell him to beware. He has no way of knowing how old the people in these videos are. Men have been sent to prison and put on the sex offender register for receiving and forwarding videos that turn out to feature children.

When it comes to sexual acts in video and pictures, everyone has to be over 18. Is your DH really truly certain that everyone in the random videos he's receiving is over-age?

Of course he has no way of knowing , none ! I imagine if all porn watcher who were watching stuff that included illegal content even unknowingly were held accountable our prisons would be bursting and unable to cope . Ignorance is no defence and they should care a whole lot more about what they watch
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