My partner watches porn

[Musiclovingmum]

I have been with my partner for over a year now. We live together now, and I've always had a high sex drive so we have sex pretty much every day, some days more than once.

I have recently found out he has also been watching porn to sort himself out. He watches mature porn and BBW porn. I'm only 26 and he's 30, and I'm slim. He doesn't know I know yet or my feelings about it.

I just don't understand why he needs to watch other women online to get off when he can have it with anytime. I think it makes it worse that the women are completely the opposite to me.

Honest opinions before I speak to him, am I just overreacting about it?

@sammylady37

Aaaaaand, with you calling me a liar, I’m done discussing anything with you.

Feel free to use my unwillingness to engage further with you as proof that you were right, the sky is blue, today is Tuesday or anything else you see fit, such is your style

Yes you did disclose yourself as lying when you pretended that me asking fifteen toes what research he had done on the damage of porn had anything at all to do with the later comment I made to him about asking a few men I know of his statement that men are not monogomous is true for them You pretended they were part of the sale topic we discussed and you totally disrespected me and any woman who dares to read AND have personal opinions by implying it makes one a hypocrite to read literate and research on something and have personal and anecdotal experiences EVEN WHEN THEY WERE ON DIFFERENT ISSUES If you come on and tell lies about what someone says and twist the context expect t that person to be unhappy amd stand up to your bullying I for one am happy not to engage with you either

I never understand why people can say things like 'you are over-reacting' and watching porn is 'normal'.

Porn might be acceptable for some people, good for them, for others it isn't and that should be respected too and they should not have to ignore their feelings about it.

I could not care less if a man watches porn as long as it is not an obsession that takes over his sex life and as long as it does not contain stuff like under-age participants or violence against women.

But I completely understand that some women will have different views and they should not be made to feel like prudes or uncool for stating that this bothers them and might interfere with their enjoyment of the relationship.

Talk to your partner if this really bothers you and share your concerns,.