DP started a new job back in July. He is quite close to his manager, talks about her a lot in everyday conversation and he seems to get a lot of good treatment at work. He works in a supermarket. Recently the other managers were in talks of sacking him but this woman convinced them to keep him on as he’s such a good worker (he’s late a lot and has had a fair few days off). She’s given him the gold star award and has given him chocolates for free as well as crates of beer 🙄. The other day he had to take my pink lighter to work as his wasn’t working, I said if you’re not comfortable showing it just hide it, he said oh it’s just (This woman) who’ll see it so I’m not bothered. I haven’t mentioned anything to him yet as I don’t know if I’m just paranoid... my spidey senses are definitely tingling. He’s also recently downloaded a messenger that connects with his contacts, the messages self destruct after the other persons read them...