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Love & hurt & me being foolish

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22xo · 07/01/2021 14:34

This is going to be long guys, please advice me on what to do..

I’ve been dating this guy for a month now, we’re both 22. He came out of prison last year feb (let’s call him s) & there’s his ex who is a psycho and won’t leave him alone... some fake account started sending me abuse which we later found out wasn’t her and this prompted her to snitch on S and he was arrested for 24hrs 3 days ago.

Abit of background, he used to live in London & was in prison in London. And he moved to notts. So after his ex snitched the police were looking for him so he went back to London and is now out on bail and has to stay in London until his court date with 4 charges against him. In the time he was outside of prison he managed to start his own barber shop.

Moving on the day after he was arrested and out he goes to see his ex for reasons I don’t know, and now he’s telling me she looks pregnant so they’re going to do a pregnancy test. They were together whilst he was in prison and a few months after. So 6-8 months he has been single before meeting me.

S is now telling me she is pregnant and it’s his but his ex has also just found out about me & him and if she was pregnant she had months to get in contact with him but all of a sudden she is now.

Sorry I feel really stupid and after a bad heart break I decided to give things another go and I genuinely thought he was the one, he treated me so good..

Do I just forget about him and move on??

At the moment I’m just overthinking everything and I feel like I’ve been played and strung along in yet another relationship

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Regularsizedrudy · 07/01/2021 19:04

I’ve been dating this guy for a month now, we’re both 22. He came out of prison last year feb - read as far as here, can tell already this is doomed. Dump him.

22xo · 08/01/2021 11:13

Thanks guys, I appreciate all the advice x

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