To form a pact with first love?

[Changeandallthat]

NC for this. Ex wants us to form a pact. He's now single after a messy divorce and I'm happily married but still love ex. We were together over 20 years ago and together nearly ten years and both been long term with my DH and his ex wife for 20 years.

The pact is if we both end up sngle at the same time we get back together. What do you think?

Is it cheating? We chat online platonically. I have told him I will never cheat on dh. He respects this.

Agree you're not happily married. Your DH deserves better.

Sounds like an ancient plotline from Friends.

Is this a wind up?

How immature!

When I read the title I thought you were going to say you were both about 18 and ‘if you get to 35 blah blah blah’ I would never to this to DH and if you do this to your husband then you can’t even like him that much.

Op
Your behaviour and your ex is frankly Very shitty !!!

How would you feel if your husband did the same to you?

This is ridiculous.

If you were happy, you wouldn't be wasting all this time online chatting when you could be spending it with your actual DH/family.

He's a different person than he was all those years ago and so are you.

There's a reason you broke up after 10 years. What was that reason?

Shut down this nonsense. Put him on the acquaintance Christmas card list and get back to your real life.