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Shaking from DP squaring up to me

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Panicking40609 · 14/12/2020 22:58

Posting in aibu for traffic, I’m sorry

I’m shaking. Argument with DP just happened, I was being passive aggressive cleaning up because he’s passing out, can’t even sit up straight because he’s drunk again. He started drinking wine at 8am this morning. We’re in the process of him moving in with me so during said argument he was packing things to leave.

He just snapped and squared up to me, I told him not to and asked him not to make the argument worse by bringing violence into it. (He has admitted hitting ex in the past). I genuinely thought he was going to hit me, I was mentally preparing for it. In the end I pushed him away and he just picked up his stuff and left.

I’ve locked the door but I’m shaking. I was so scared he would hurt my pets.

HopeMumsnet · 15/12/2020 09:24

Hi there OP,
We just wanted to say that we've moved your thread to our Relationships section, and to link you to our Relationships content page.
Have a wee look, there are general articles on there but you might see that we have an piece on Coercive Control that might ring some bells for you.
There's also the Freedom Programme, if you contact them they can let you see their resources, which are very good at helping women to re-orientate ourselves when we have become mixed up with someone who isn't good for us.
We're sorry you're finding yourself in this predicament, OP, you're not the first and unfortunately you won't be the last. We're sending some virtual Flowers and a Brew for a bit of comfort.
We hope you're doing okay and feeling strong this morning. x

LilyMumsnet · 17/12/2020 11:42

Hi OP

We're going to move your thread over to our relationships topic - we think it'd be better off there. Flowers

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