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Guy with pregnant girlfriend keeps messaging me

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Confusedwalker · 11/12/2020 23:40

So just after abit of advice

I was seeing this guy about a 2years ago on and off for about 2 years
Neither of us were ready to commit at that time and it got abit messy

Anyway I found someone I wanted to be in a relationship with and called it off with him.
A few months later he also found someone.

All was fine until I broke up with my ex and the guy started liking my photos on insta ( he wasn’t following me at the time, so had to search for me each time )
This was both through his personal and business account

I confronted him on this and he said he wasn’t doing anything wrong, we had a quick catch up via DM where he admitted he would have liked to have given things a go with me but we were both in different head spaces back then and I kept him at arms length
There’s also other info he said but I don’t want to out myself on here

Anyway it turns out the girl he started seeing before is actually pregnant.
He did have her info in his insta bio but keeps deleting it.

My question is should I tell the preggo GF or should I carry on as things are.

OP posts:
Lozzerbmc · 12/12/2020 10:14

I think best to leave it block him and dont get involved. From what you’ve said he’s searched for you, liked your photos and been wistful about what might have been. Not great for the gf but i dont quite see what you’d tell her and what it would achieve for her?

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