Hello. I'm in a new relationship after a 15 year marriage .. with a very kind, generous and sexually adventurous man . I am not able to post on the sex board so I hope that this is appropriate to post here .
He gets his kicks from my pleasure and is always attentive and giving in every way.
Here is the thing... it takes him ages to ejaculate and sometimes not at all , but is very content and satisfied with that.
We spend hours at times, engaging with each other's bodies and at the beginning of the relationship , he was nervous and had difficulty maintaining an erection.
We discussed that and he was very open about it saying that after a nasty divorce and some other personal catastrophes, he found it affected his erections and libido.
Since then , he has no difficulty in staying hard for sometimes hours at a time and we have great fun!
We discussed porn use. I have no objection to it and while he says he enjoys it , he feels it can be addictive and it can become a habit . While he was single and living alone, I get the impression it was a regular thing for him.
He has come about 8 out of 10 times when we have sex . In all
Positions we tried . But I do wonder why not every time and why does it take so long ? My experience is limited to my exh who Came after 15 mins . Every time.
He is happy not to cum, I am hugely satisfied but I wonder what's going on or is this just his normal. Thanks .