Me and this guy have been seeing each other for 5 months now, been speaking for 8. I really didn’t expect it especially after my prev relationship but I fell head over heels in love with this guy. He’s so kind, handsome and affectionate, I have felt so comfortable with him and he always keeps me laughing. I can honestly say I’ve never fell so hard for a man before, our personalities just clicked instantly and he did cute considerate things no one has ever done for me. He ticked every box other than he has drama with his daughters mom every now and then but I haven’t got involved in that to know the ins and outs, just they don’t seem to get on.
Anyway, last week Wednesday he asked me to see him as normal (we’ve been seeing each other pretty regularly) and we had a good time, I came home and we were texting as normal up until Sunday mid day. I text him and instead of getting a response a normal amount of time later, he messaged back at 10PM, then we had a brief convo, said goodnight and instead of a usual morning text the next day, I got one message at 5pm and never heard off him after. Then yesterday he messaged me in the morning, I sent a message at 2PM and he has replied now this morning. This behaviour is OFF, he isn’t busy with work and these aren’t the days he’s had his son either so I can’t figure out the reason. I haven’t addressed the issue with him only vaguely asked if everything’s ok to which he said it is. The way he’s turned cold on me has upset me and had me feeling pretty low, I feel as though I was on this massive high because of him and now it’s all crashed suddenly.
His message this morning is short, is a response to what I said yesterday and then asks “you ok?” So my question is do I either tell him what I’m thinking, if so how?, not address it and play cool for a few more days or just ignore the message? I usually never let a guy get the best of me, I just really allowed him into my life and allowed myself to get such heavy feelings for him and now I feel horrible to be honest.