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Shouted at in sleep

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LibrariesGiveUsPower45321 · 19/10/2020 02:23

Just that really. I’m sitting here shaking.

This is the 4th time it’s happened. I’ve rolled over in my sleep or semi sleep and stolen the blanket. I’ve tossed and turned in my sleep. DH has shouted at me very angry whilst I was asleep/semi sleep state.

I told him last time this is a line in the sand for me. So I told him this time to go sleep downstairs as I can not sleep after that. He refuse and refused and now has got in the car and driven off at 2am in the morning.

He’s not a happy person at the moment, but he’s not generally aggressive. But he shouts at the kids a lot. I think he needs help but won’t go get it. We’ve had our issues we’ve been working through but he is a good man. We are both exhausted from lack of sleep caused by small kids. I suffer from night terrors, and being shouted at is not helping me.

Is this the line in the sand?

OP posts:
romeolovedjulliet · 19/10/2020 15:11

how about a compromise ? if you have a double bed, get a king size if the duvet is still a problem.

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