I think he has cheated on me..is he acting guilty?

[harrttonfire]

I have evidence that they guy I've been seeing for 10 months has been cheating on me.
Due to new restrictions in my area I haven't seen him in two weeks.
Last Saturday I text him and asked if I could ring him later ? He said "why do you want to ring"
I just said for a chat.
He said "no I'm a bit busy tonight ring tomorrow"
Then the next day he didn't answer but was texting ??
I said I really needed to talk and couldn't do it via text
He said "I'm not available for any calls this week"
Just text or voice note it.
I said "look it's a 5 min call,I understand if your busy (he's not ) il ring you when your sorted and in bed.
He replied "I'm not available for calls I'm afraid just text it or drop it"
I sent him a voice note.
He text saying I was being "neurotic"
I'm not..
I think he knew I was on to him,he didn't want to answer as he couldn't have time to think of what to say.
I don't understand how he couldn't have a 5 min phone conversation.
I'm not being crazy here ? This is barmy

I wouldn't bother him again. Block his number.

Why bother? If you have evidence and know he’s been cheating just delete block him.
He’s made it clear to you that he’s not interested sadly, all you’re doing right now is boosting his ego. Sorry he turned out to be such a dick.

He’s trying to dump you but is too cowardly to do it to your face. Block and move on.

Does it matter if he’s cheating, if he isn’t it’s utterly weird still. Also can we just call people not msg people to say can I call?

He sounds like a selfish moron. I would completely ignore him from now on and move on

He gave you the option to ‘drop it’ and I think that’s the one I’d go for.

Even if he isn't cheating, his an arsehole. Get rid

I was just being polite really asking could I call as he goes to the gym etc and didn't want to disturb him.

If you have to ask him if you can phone him he’s not right for you. He doesn’t give you the respect you deserve. Block him.

He was fine with me until I said I had something I wanted to talk about then he's behaviour changed.
I think because he knows he's been talking to girls on tinder and thinks I know.
He will want to text rather than chat because he's a shit liar and knows he will drop himself in it.
I can see right through him.

He doesn't want you to call because he's at home with his wife or partner. Have you been to his house?

Either way block and move on.

@Plussizejumpsuit yeah I've met all his family and stay at his every weekend.
He's been on tinder,my friend seen him and I found messages on his fb messenger to girls asking "what you wearing"

You deserve so much better than this OP. Walk away.

[quote harrttonfire]@Plussizejumpsuit yeah I've met all his family and stay at his every weekend.
He's been on tinder,my friend seen him and I found messages on his fb messenger to girls asking "what you wearing"
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And you still fancy him?

He's reply was
"Your being neurotic,you have no proof whatsoever,anyone can make a profile,nothing you spoke about in that voice note refers to me,and too be honest I'm embarrassed by your behaviour,you look obsessed with me,I'm not putting up with these accusations,I don't know why you even sent that,you were just on a rant"

So why do you want to talk to him? He really doesn't care about you. He cba to talk to you AT ALL and flirts with other women. He's not worth even a text to tell him you're dumping him. Keep your self-respect intact and delete his number.

So you know he’s cheating? Why are we having this thread OP, you don’t need this- move on

Eh, the blokes on tinder and doesn’t want to talk to you. I’m really not sure what you’re asking about.

Grab hold of your dignity snd stop bothering him. Just block and move on,

Don’t bother yourself with trying to catch him out in the lie on the phone then, you know he’s a nasty liar, dump him and block him

What confused me is he was speaking to me fine until I said I had something I wanted to talk about then he began acting dodgy.

Ugh he’s a pathetic loser - why are you making yourself even lower than him by chasing him? End it or embrace a life of throwing yourself under a bus willingly.

Why do you need to talk to him? Just dump him and move on.

I wasn't being neurotic was I ?
Only I wanted to do was find out the truth
I don't understand how he turned it all on me and I'm the one in the wrong.

Well he's a prize isn't he!

Just dump and move on OP.

@harrttonfire

I wasn't being neurotic was I ? Only I wanted to do was find out the truth I don't understand how he turned it all on me and I'm the one in the wrong.

Attack is the greatest form of defence that’s why. He’s caught out and so he’s turned, it’s common behaviour.