I think he has cheated on me..is he acting guilty?

[harrttonfire]

I have evidence that they guy I've been seeing for 10 months has been cheating on me.
Due to new restrictions in my area I haven't seen him in two weeks.
Last Saturday I text him and asked if I could ring him later ? He said "why do you want to ring"
I just said for a chat.
He said "no I'm a bit busy tonight ring tomorrow"
Then the next day he didn't answer but was texting ??
I said I really needed to talk and couldn't do it via text
He said "I'm not available for any calls this week"
Just text or voice note it.
I said "look it's a 5 min call,I understand if your busy (he's not ) il ring you when your sorted and in bed.
He replied "I'm not available for calls I'm afraid just text it or drop it"
I sent him a voice note.
He text saying I was being "neurotic"
I'm not..
I think he knew I was on to him,he didn't want to answer as he couldn't have time to think of what to say.
I don't understand how he couldn't have a 5 min phone conversation.
I'm not being crazy here ? This is barmy

@harrttonfire

About 7 weeks ago I noticed he had gone really quiet,no texting as often. I said to him "your quiet lately,are you okay? Hope work isn't stressing you out again" He replied "I'm busy,this is the last time I'm telling you to stop chewing me with questions like that,speak to someone else that way,not me,your just like my ex,I'm not your property"

He didn't speak to me for 4 days until I apologised for asking him and then he said I was in a huff about it and I said I wasn't.

He has turned me insane.

Sound like a nutter. All the alarm bells should be ringing. Stay away from him!

Oh for Pete’s sake. Block him.

Keep your dignity, Your head held high and move on.

@WingBingo

Oh for Pete’s sake. Block him.

Keep your dignity, Your head held high and move on.

This entirely.

OP, it's really hard to read your updates. You should have dumped and blocked him as soon as you knew he was looking around on Tinder. With respect, you aren't Inspector Poirot trying to unmask a culprit in a dramatic scene. In future, if you don't feel the person you are seeing is into you, or giving you the respect you deserve, just drop them. There's no working out of motives required.

Why are you wasting your time chasing someone who's treating you like shit?

You deserve better.

@harrttonfire

About 7 weeks ago I noticed he had gone really quiet,no texting as often. I said to him "your quiet lately,are you okay? Hope work isn't stressing you out again" He replied "I'm busy,this is the last time I'm telling you to stop chewing me with questions like that,speak to someone else that way,not me,your just like my ex,I'm not your property"

He didn't speak to me for 4 days until I apologised for asking him and then he said I was in a huff about it and I said I wasn't.

He has turned me insane.

I don’t understand why you didn’t dump him 7 weeks ago.

It seems pretty obvious he has already dumped you. Sorry OP.

[quote harrttonfire]@Plussizejumpsuit yeah I've met all his family and stay at his every weekend.
He's been on tinder,my friend seen him and I found messages on his fb messenger to girls asking "what you wearing"
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In that case he's just a dick. You did nothing wrong. His moodiness has made you think you did so then you text more to check up on him. That's not odd. But seriously just leave him to it. He sounds awful.

It doesn’t matter now does it. Block him and move on his a liar and a cheat don’t waste any more time on him