Just catching up from end of last thread.
To be honest I don’t understand why
...I said I wasn't ready to LTB before tonight happened
Because he’s been treating you and the dc appallingly well before that point!
Glad you have finally reached the stage you recognise he needs to go.
And from the sound of things he’s been behaving appallingly at his mums too, I suspect at the very least palming his dc onto her.
How old is your youngest? Just because he’s “attached” to him doesn’t mean he’s a good person to have around your dc!
Removing the milk and yoghurt tokens is indeed a despicably low point!
Don’t puncture the tyres just let them down using the valves. He won’t be sure if it was you or the tyres then and you’ve not done anything criminal.
Massive, massive bullet dodged
I agree, slight flesh wound though?
Can you double lock the house when you’re out?
Glad you had a lovely dinner/evening with dc.
if we argued in the past he would go silent (for days at a time, once even a week!) that’s abusive and controlling behaviour too op, please do what you need to in order to ensure you don’t end up in a similar position again with a different man.
I mean he essentially dumped you, after everything you still were not willing to cut the cord until he left and has made no contact I’m afraid I agree
He has NO business communicating with your dc I hope you’ve figured out how to stop him?
Does he currently have access to your Netflix account or similar? If so boot him off those too
I’m actually glad you’re FINALLY finding your anger!!
You need to explain to dc that you’re no longer together and why (in age appropriate terms)
Bet his sister says something along the lines of “It’s about time!!!”
Wouldn’t be surprised
I agree with 4 years being 4 years too long already!
You have to wonder what contributions he makes at his mother's house. I’m guessing very little if any!
Actually the sister might try and impose on op to take him back to stop him using their mum!
My main concern is he sounds the type to get aggro so PLEASE prioritise safety above all else.
Have just discovered his sister is poorly according to whom?