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To be fed up

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FlorentineAz · 07/10/2020 21:44

I’m so sick of my boyfriend’s behaviour - like some kind of under sexed teenager.

He has made it quite clear to me that he thinks my looks are a 5/10. He has told me I have a big nose and flat boobs.

He also seems to delight in telling me how attractive his friend’s girlfriends are. I have asked him time and time again not to comment on the attractiveness of other women and to save it for his male friends but he just does it again and again.

He’s like some sort of 48 year old teenager. I’ve just had enough and he’s just commented that his friends new girlfriend is very good looking. I didn’t ask him this and don’t want to know. Especially when he’s made it clear he thinks I’m not pretty.

I’ve just told him I’m fed up of his behaviour and feel like going and finding a man who actually thinks I’m attractive. Am I overreacting?

OP posts:
picosandsancerre · 10/10/2020 12:42

He has made you doubt yourself, doubting your upset, minimising things he said and now your feeling upset that you shouted at him. I am surprised you haven't shouted before. Focus on the fact you don't care that the relationship is over.. enjoy that feeling

TwentyViginti · 10/10/2020 12:51

He talked over you because he was being the misogynist he always was. They say women are overreacting, as in their mind, women's actual feelings don't count as relevant.

Well done for getting rid.

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