Hollywood wax and food

[Octoberbreeze]

Name change since talked about partner before and sil followed me

Partner suddenly asked me if I would consider a full wax off said it would be a real turn on ....
And food play then

Does it really hurt?
Thinking he ought to also take his off in order of fairness

That’s nothing to do with social conditioning, it’s me having the right to do what I want with my body.

@Newnamenewopenme If it weren't for social contagion, you would never have thought or heard of the idea of removing your hair being a good thing in the first place.

For me, I go to the Beautician’s every 5-6 weeks and have the whole lot off (Hollywood).
I absolutely detest hair down there.
Nothing to do with a porn look, it just seems to itch when in full bush mode. Lockdown was a whole other issue, I even purchased a kit from boots, but didn’t have the guts to go through with doing it myself.
My beautician, I’ve been going to for 20years and completes it within 10-15mins. She gives me the spatula to put in my mouth incase it hurts. But I find the best method is to talk constantly and try and be distracted.
The left side hurts more than the right bizarrely 😂.
As fort Man, well he is hairy as hairy can be and I wouldn’t have him any other way. I’m not a lover of the smooth look on men.
My recommendation is go for it. Worth a try, but def get a professional. Please don’t try and do yourself first time.

Oh I would also like to add, as others have mentioned..... leave the loving for the next day. It will be quite tender on the day!!

@SoulofanAggron If it weren't for social contagion, you would never have thought or heard of the idea of removing your hair being a good thing in the first place.

I shaved it pretty much as soon as I got it, even though we were learning about it at school and then saying it’s all normal I just knew I didn’t like it! I must’ve been 12 so hadn’t seen any porn or anything at that point. I agree with @luanmapo about it itching, I think that’s what made me start getting rid at a young age. Then I just moved onto wax as I got older.

I’ve shaved it all off since I was 18, so 22 years. I get every bit of hair off the labia and right from the front to the back. Ive also had laser to reduce the growth.

Back at the very start, the regrow the would itch a little, but shaving every day, has clearly desensitised me to any itching. I can’t bear stubble though, so I shave literally once or twice a day.

I love being completely bare and I love receiving oral sex from my husband without hair. He prefers it too. I also like it when my DH shaves himself and takes off all the hair. It means giving oral is far more pleasant and he looks huge, which is rather sexy.

I’d advise anyone thinking of a Hollywood to go do it. And if you do decide to shave, I second getting decent razors!

I’ve been getting Hollywood waxed since I was about 20 I think. I’m 36 now. I didn’t actually grow hair until I was 14 and my body hair was quite sparse and fair anyway. I didn’t like the look of my pubic hair, I would have preferred a “full bush” but that isn’t what I got. Over the years (from waxing) most of my follicles have died on my pubic mound so it looks even worse now (I now only grow hair on my labia which I don’t like the look of). The way I describe it is “scraggy”. My armpit hair has darkened and thickened over the past couple of years and I often wonder if I wouldn’t have started waxing, if I’d have got the full bush I dreamed of. Nothing to do with porn or anything, it was just what I preferred when I was younger due to the look of my pubes and now I have to keep it up because I despise the look of them ever more now.

I also trained in waxing. It’s not painless, if you go to a specialist wax salon or look for a Kim Lawless trained waxer (and someone who uses hot wax only, not strip), it shouldn’t be too traumatic. I done myself all through lockdown and I will admit it takes balls of steel to rip the hair out of your own vulva.

My OH is hairy as hairy can be and I love it. Though finding his pubes everywhere is quite annoying and I defo wouldn’t lick anything off his hairy body, I get enough hairs in my mouth when doing oral if he wanted to try that kind of stuff, I would probably tell him I’d need to wax him first 🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m not a fan of food play but each to their own. If you feel safe with your partner and want to share an experience then go for it. Don’t listen to the prudes on here shouting about paedophilia.

@Octoberbreeze
Don't like it dont do it iron...but take your twisted ideas and jump
Bet you're a laugh trying to link a bit of a fun twist on sex with paedophilia.....how weird

Umm you're very defensive here op. And quite aggressively so.

I think people are making valid comments on why women (like you) are being asked to go through painful procedures by men.

Porn? Think about the most searched terms by men, teens? There's something sick and wrong in the world of porn and it's leaching out into real people's lives.

@SoulofanAggron

That’s nothing to do with social conditioning, it’s me having the right to do what I want with my body.

@Newnamenewopenme If it weren't for social contagion, you would never have thought or heard of the idea of removing your hair being a good thing in the first place.

Everything is acceptable as far as pubic hair goes....so social contagion also allows people to keep a full bush if they so want to!

Women actually get judged far more for removing their pubic hair it seems....so in that case we are resisting social contagion and social influence in some ways.

Obviously i'm biased as because I remove my pubic hair i'm more likely to see the negative comments related to removing hair...perhaps women who don't remove theirs perceive that they are judged more for not removing it......but the way that women who remove their pubic hair are criticised is in a disgusting way...where we are told we want to look like little girls and that our partners must only be attracted to little girls if they like that look.......so I think the fact that women still choose to do what they want and remove their hair if that's what they want to do is actually a great example of women choosing to do whatever they want with their own bodies in spite of negative social reactions!!