Intelligent conversationalist.
GSOH.
Trustworthy and supportive.
Good personal hygiene
Must have hair (I'm afraid I don't go for bald men)
Quite slim (not into muscular or chubby men. Vacuous I know. Sorry.
Must have a kind, empathetic heart.
Generous with time, emotions and money (as I am generous with all of these things).
Must have untied himself from his Mother's, and all ex's, apron strings....
...but having said that...
...Mustn't bad mouth ex's (it's a red flag ladies).
Must have a healthy relationship with any ex that he has children with, and with said children.
Must have job, own living space and car.
Mustn't make lewd or derogatory comments about women.
Must be respectful towards women. Myself, his Mother and any ex's included.
Must not smoke or do any drugs, including weed.
Mustn't drink to excess. It's all about moderation.
Must not watch excessive porn, as it often makes a man extremely lacking in the bedroom area.. I've had my fill of boring bonks, or no bonks at all!!
Torys need not apply.
Racists, Bigots, Homophobes and Sexist Pigs need not apply.
Mustn't live too far away. I've tried long distance, it doesn't work for me.
Lust for life. Likes travelling, day trips, outdoor activities, adventuring. hiking etc
Likes watching documentaries and decent movies.
Musicians, Writers, Artists all welcome :-)
Self sufficient.
MUST LIKE CATS!!
Mustn't be controlling, jealous, short tempered, opinionated, moany, complainy or domineering.
Mustn't be socially or emotionally stilted, must be able to have a conversation about the relationship.
Must respect that I'm a free spirit, I like my own space and doing my own thing. I don't like to be 'kept tabs' on.
Must enjoy and be willing to participate in DIY (LOL).
Mustn't be adverse to cooking, hoovering, cleaning the toilet, doing his own laundry, putting the rubbish out etc etc.
Must be willing to put in as much effort as I do....
Must be willing to help me as much as he helps friends and family. I no longer want to come last on my partner's list.
Definitely no hint of violence, towards me or anybody else.
This is why my POF profile reads like War and Peace.
This is also why I am still single at 50 LOL :-D