After my post last week, things have escalated. I've just found out my husband was violent to previous girlfriend's and heavily took cocaine. He's been acting strange for over a year, cold towards me and the children, no help at all, calling me crazy and warped (I have PTSD). Last week we got into an argument because I attempted to check his phone to see if he was talking to other women....He went for me, trying to grab the phone, I wouldn't let go and so he grabbed my wrist and squeezed it really hard and dragged me across the floor..He said the I'm sorry speech. It's the first time this has happened. However, not being content with his sorry and due to his actions, I looked up 2 of his exes and asked why they broke up. Long story short, both women, who don't know each other, have said he had a big drug problem, and was violent....I knew none of this when we married. I am scared to a certain degree, but am not weak. How do I remain safe whilst removing him from my home? I have children and no family around so this makes it difficult, any help or advice? X