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Marriage breaking down - 3 kids - newborn

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Lolapixie2012 · 08/07/2020 12:44

Hi I am literally writing this crying .
I need help / advice !
Me and my husband have been together for 15 years - only married for 2 . We have 2 daughters 8 and 6 - and now a newborn baby boy .

Our marriage hasn’t been working for a very long time . I think it’s hard because we care about each other a lot and always will but we do not get on . We’re two different people - I think we’ve just grown apart. I’m 35 so we’ve practically grown up together .
Our girls have witnessed us arguing - a lot . Swearing because of fraustration . He’s lost his job now so he’s rock bottom . He’s always been successful but now his confidence is so low.

My question is -should I end our marriage? How will I cope with two girls and a 10 week old baby ?
Has anyone done it ?? I think I want to be on my own - he’s in bed now and it’s 1pm ! I’ve had to ask his mum to help me today because he won’t get out of bed . What do I do :(

I hope someone can help me

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